Black Hair Media Forum : Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Mon, 20 May 2013 14:44:17 +0000 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:54:55 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=354299 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : pattigurlatl wrote: OoDles...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122264.html#10122264 Author: OoDles O
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:54pm

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Heres a question for you Patty and anyone else:

Imagine that Women some how some way were granted complete and total authority on all things that featured female sexuality(movies/ ads/ TV/ music/ Music videos ect). There would always be a woman who had the final say and there would be some sort of tax that would be implemented where the revenue would go towards female empowerment organizations ect... essentially all the money that is generated now would benefit woman as a whole.

Would you be OK with this hypothetical scenario? 
Good Idea?
I've never had a problem with sexuality. I have a problem with using it for the sake of the male ego or male dollar when statistics show it doesn't count. It makes us robotic. 

If you use sexuality for empowerment, then its all good IMO. As long as it doesn't involve abusing someone of course. But if it is used for financial gaine, IE, prostitution, P O R N...I have no problem with it. Bet even in those industries, it is the male that is catered to...not the women. But when you have books like 50 Shades of Grey and anything Zane writes become best sellers, you have to know we have power and the power is in catering to what we want to see, hear and read.

I hear you...
I just wonder who would be the authority on what meets the right "empowerment" criteria ... it would be women but Women aren't one monolithic group...

Its sad to say.. but when you turn something into a business.. theres a point when it reaches a level where higher profit is more important than ethics .

I dont see this changing with women at the helm 


Edited by OoDles O - Feb 05 2013 at 7:55pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:54:55 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122264.html#10122264 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : melikey wrote:men sell sex...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122199.html#10122199 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:34pm

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

men sell sex just as much. the bar is much lower for them so we tend to ignore . usher takes off his shirt and humps air all the time.  
i think the superbowl was a tremendous night for black women. i am not going to fuel all the hate being thrown their way.
wait till lady gaga is invited. i'm all over this thread.  

well not over me because i don't do madonna 2.0.3 rev. 4

she literally is a Firefox update.
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:34:54 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122199.html#10122199 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : OoDles O wrote:Heres a...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122193.html#10122193 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:31pm

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Heres a question for you Patty and anyone else:

Imagine that Women some how some way were granted complete and total authority on all things that featured female sexuality(movies/ ads/ TV/ music/ Music videos ect). There would always be a woman who had the final say and there would be some sort of tax that would be implemented where the revenue would go towards female empowerment organizations ect... essentially all the money that is generated now would benefit woman as a whole.

Would you be OK with this hypothetical scenario? 
Good Idea?
I've never had a problem with sexuality. I have a problem with using it for the sake of the male ego or male dollar when statistics show it doesn't count. It makes us robotic.

If you use sexuality for empowerment, then its all good IMO. As long as it doesn't involve abusing someone of course. But if it is used for financial gaine, IE, prostitution, P O R N...I have no problem with it. Bet even in those industries, it is the male that is catered to...not the women. But when you have books like 50 Shades of Grey and anything Zane writes become best sellers, you have to know we have power and the power is in catering to what we want to see, hear and read.

Edited by pattigurlatl - Feb 05 2013 at 7:33pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:31:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122193.html#10122193 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : nitabug wrote:So if guys are...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122138.html#10122138 Author: teendiva
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:16pm

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:


So if guys are the problems, and the way guys are judging women is the problem...

raise your damn sons better. while watching the superbowl with her daughter, she could have made it a teachable moment for her son.




]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:16:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122138.html#10122138 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : What is her point? ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122131.html#10122131 Author: teendiva
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:14pm

What is her point? ]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:14:50 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122131.html#10122131 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : Heres a question for you Patty...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122128.html#10122128 Author: OoDles O
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:14pm

Heres a question for you Patty and anyone else:

Imagine that Women some how some way were granted complete and total authority on all things that featured female sexuality(movies/ ads/ TV/ music/ Music videos ect). There would always be a woman who had the final say and there would be some sort of tax that would be implemented where the revenue would go towards female empowerment organizations ect... essentially all the money that is generated now would benefit woman as a whole.

Would you be OK with this hypothetical scenario? 
Good Idea?
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:14:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122128.html#10122128 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : OoDles O wrote: pattigurlatl...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122095.html#10122095 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 7:01pm

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

money is king.
and generating revenue is the goal
men pimp women.. women pimp women..
aint no money in pimping men.

Thats why Donkey/stallion booty videos are made  

lol
No one is disputing that as fact. The problem is that it is unnecessarily systemic and the only people that can change that are women. The reason why they don't IMO is because it is ingrained. It is inline with women who think it's ok to pimp their own daughters. Man comes first.


Yeah, but theres no "real" incentive for people to do away with these old, possibly obstructive views. 
As long as it generates Money then you can place any old cog in the system (man/Woman/Alien) as long as they continue producing revenue.

I think Wrestling is a good example of this. Typically the woman is this hot babe who's
soul purpose is to look good .. They'll let her wrestle cause 2 girls wrestling is good but she will exhibit every stereotype known to stimulate a males interest physically

On the flip side.. The guys who are the most successful have to play into some sort of Super Macho Gladiator type of role... again this is done to appeal to the larger male audience cause they are the ones spending money.

Women and Men kill themselves to look good for each other

With that said Football has the highest female viewer ship among team sports. I'm pretty sure that the game is appealing but it doesn't hurt (for women I'd think) that these dudes are running around in tights battling to the death like gladiators. These football players are gonna have all sorts of issues neurologically but who cares cause it makes too much damn money!
You're right Ooodles. Football is a great example of it going both way although it does still tilt towards men's opinions and viewership. I do think we're breaking barriers at least in the female and homosexual male viewership with Calvin Klein's first SB ad. I think it is a slow process and maybe women will eventually unbind themselves from the chains that centuries of sexism bound us to.


]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:01:07 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122095.html#10122095 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : men sell sex just as much. the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122090.html#10122090 Author: melikey
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:59pm

men sell sex just as much. the bar is much lower for them so we tend to ignore . usher takes off his shirt and humps air all the time.  
i think the superbowl was a tremendous night for black women. i am not going to fuel all the hate being thrown their way.
wait till lady gaga is invited. i'm all over this thread.  

]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:59:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122090.html#10122090 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : OoDles O wrote: nitabug...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122080.html#10122080 Author: nitabug
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:55pm

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I do not watch football for any aesthetic or sexual reasons at all.

I only listen to Beyonce because shes a great singer


She isn't that great of a singer, it does help that she is pretty. Alot of her songs are trash.
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:55:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122080.html#10122080 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : I disagree. I personally felt...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122077.html#10122077 Author: Midna
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:53pm

I disagree. I personally felt that entire performance, although a display of overt sexuality was also a display of power. Let's be honest, the entire performance was crafted in a way that not only worshiped Beyonce as its powerful center, but also worshiped the women contributing their talents.

It was a multi-racial all female cast making that magic work and it was great. Beyonce was the main center, yes. But she also passed the spotlight onto that badass female guitarist and her former fellow sisters she performed for many years with as Destiny's Child.

I cannot see that amazing set as some kind of submissive sex show. If anything, I thought it was the complete opposite. Clap
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:53:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122077.html#10122077 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : nitabug wrote:I do not watch...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122074.html#10122074 Author: OoDles O
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:53pm

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I do not watch football for any aesthetic or sexual reasons at all.

I only listen to Beyonce because shes a great singer
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:53:22 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122074.html#10122074 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : I do not watch football for any...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122065.html#10122065 Author: nitabug
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:49pm

I do not watch football for any aesthetic or sexual reasons at all.]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:49:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122065.html#10122065 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : pattigurlatl wrote: OoDles...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122061.html#10122061 Author: OoDles O
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:47pm

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

money is king.
and generating revenue is the goal
men pimp women.. women pimp women..
aint no money in pimping men.

Thats why Donkey/stallion booty videos are made  

lol
No one is disputing that as fact. The problem is that it is unnecessarily systemic and the only people that can change that are women. The reason why they don't IMO is because it is ingrained. It is inline with women who think it's ok to pimp their own daughters. Man comes first.


Yeah, but theres no "real" incentive for people to do away with these old, possibly obstructive views. 
As long as it generates Money then you can place any old cog in the system (man/Woman/Alien) as long as they continue producing revenue.

I think Wrestling is a good example of this. Typically the woman is this hot babe who's
soul purpose is to look good .. They'll let her wrestle cause 2 girls wrestling is good but she will exhibit every stereotype known to stimulate a males interest physically

On the flip side.. The guys who are the most successful have to play into some sort of Super Macho Gladiator type of role... again this is done to appeal to the larger male audience cause they are the ones spending money.

Women and Men kill themselves to look good for each other

With that said Football has the highest female viewer ship among team sports. I'm pretty sure that the game is appealing but it doesn't hurt (for women I'd think) that these dudes are running around in tights battling to the death like gladiators. These football players are gonna have all sorts of issues neurologically but who cares cause it makes too much damn money!


Edited by OoDles O - Feb 05 2013 at 6:47pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:47:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122061.html#10122061 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : Who gives a fcuk!!!???!!!She did...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122029.html#10122029 Author: bebe88
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:34pm

Who gives a fcuk!!!???!!!

She did her thang and looked damn good doing it.]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:34:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10122029.html#10122029 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : ScorpioLuv wrote: pattigurlatl...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121996.html#10121996 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:21pm

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Sex sells. Point. Blank. Period.

Thats life. How do u think stripping and being a p0rn star became so lucrative?

 Jenna Jameson is worth $30 million off of being the best in her business at the time and even opened up her own companies off of it. 
I think this is a poor argument and let me tell you I'm incredibly liberal when it comes to sex and sexuality.

But studies show that women spend more globally and especially in the US. If women withdrew their buying power the country would fall into 3rd world status.

That being said, we don't influence laws, policies, and even though we influence sales, we don't influence the nature of product and its marketing.  Why? Because even women in power, even women with buying power curry the favor of males. Even women in power hire males before they hire females. Women consider men when men don't consider them.

And so, women cater to the male audience that isn't even concerned about how they spend their money.

This is why sex sells.
That is very true. We buy more, men buy more expensive things. I always found that funny. But sadly, anything with the media, sex sells. You put a smart, unsexy woman on anything, a women's magazine, perfume ad, tv show, see how fast it moves. Its not bc its catering to the male audience, its bc women as a whole want to be like those women they see on tv, in magazines, the girls men drool over. Thats why sex sells, bc we WOMEN want to appeal to the men, and it has been like that (shown in diff ways) since the beginning of time. Pick up some of the most popular women geared books or magazines out there, theyre telling u how to get a man. What to wear, what to cook, how to act, even how much money u should make. I mean hell, there's engagement chicken! What to cook for a man to get him to propose pg 228. LOL

Do you know that is one of the top recipes out there? sh*t is almost as popular as Nabisco's Nilla Wafer Banana Pudding thats on the side of the box Stern Smile
I guess no matter how much money, and how much education. Women will always put men before their own needs, wants and desires.

I think of Michelle Obama and Hillary Clinton, who I both admire...but they put their own aside for their men. That sends a message no matter how you slice it.  And maybe that's the way it's supposed to be.

But if so, then maybe when we see our daughters gyrating on stage for the dollar whether it is in a strip club or on a world stage, we have no room to talk.]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:21:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121996.html#10121996 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : meh. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121987.html#10121987 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:14pm

meh.

]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:14:31 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121987.html#10121987 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : OoDles O wrote:money is king.and...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121961.html#10121961 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:03pm

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

money is king.
and generating revenue is the goal
men pimp women.. women pimp women..
aint no money in pimping men.

Thats why Donkey/stallion booty videos are made  

lol
No one is disputing that as fact. The problem is that it is unnecessarily systemic and the only people that can change that are women. The reason why they don't IMO is because it is ingrained. It is inline with women who think it's ok to pimp their own daughters. Man comes first.
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:03:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121961.html#10121961 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : pattigurlatl wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121956.html#10121956 Author: ScorpioLuv
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:02pm

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Sex sells. Point. Blank. Period.

Thats life. How do u think stripping and being a p0rn star became so lucrative?

 Jenna Jameson is worth $30 million off of being the best in her business at the time and even opened up her own companies off of it. 
I think this is a poor argument and let me tell you I'm incredibly liberal when it comes to sex and sexuality.

But studies show that women spend more globally and especially in the US. If women withdrew their buying power the country would fall into 3rd world status.

That being said, we don't influence laws, policies, and even though we influence sales, we don't influence the nature of product and its marketing.  Why? Because even women in power, even women with buying power curry the favor of males. Even women in power hire males before they hire females. Women consider men when men don't consider them.

And so, women cater to the male audience that isn't even concerned about how they spend their money.

This is why sex sells.
That is very true. We buy more, men buy more expensive things. I always found that funny. But sadly, anything with the media, sex sells. You put a smart, unsexy woman on anything, a women's magazine, perfume ad, tv show, see how fast it moves. Its not bc its catering to the male audience, its bc women as a whole want to be like those women they see on tv, in magazines, the girls men drool over. Thats why sex sells, bc we WOMEN want to appeal to the men, and it has been like that (shown in diff ways) since the beginning of time. Pick up some of the most popular women geared books or magazines out there, theyre telling u how to get a man. What to wear, what to cook, how to act, even how much money u should make. I mean hell, there's engagement chicken! What to cook for a man to get him to propose pg 228. LOL

Do you know that is one of the top recipes out there? sh*t is almost as popular as Nabisco's Nilla Wafer Banana Pudding thats on the side of the box Stern Smile


Edited by ScorpioLuv - Feb 05 2013 at 6:02pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:02:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121956.html#10121956 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : money is king.and generating...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121954.html#10121954 Author: OoDles O
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 6:01pm

money is king.
and generating revenue is the goal
men pimp women.. women pimp women..
aint no money in pimping mens sexuality.

Thats why Donkey/stallion booty videos are made  

lol


Edited by OoDles O - Feb 05 2013 at 6:02pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:01:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121954.html#10121954 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : ScorpioLuv wrote:Sex sells....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121931.html#10121931 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:53pm

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Sex sells. Point. Blank. Period.

Thats life. How do u think stripping and being a p0rn star became so lucrative?

 Jenna Jameson is worth $30 million off of being the best in her business at the time and even opened up her own companies off of it. 
I think this is a poor argument and let me tell you I'm incredibly liberal when it comes to sex and sexuality.

But studies show that women spend more globally and especially in the US. If women withdrew their buying power the country would fall into 3rd world status.

That being said, we don't influence laws, policies, and even though we influence sales, we don't influence the nature of product and its marketing.  Why? Because even women in power, even women with buying power curry the favor of males. Even women in power hire males before they hire females. Women consider men when men don't consider them.

And so, women cater to the male audience that isn't even concerned about how they spend their money.

This is why sex sells.
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:53:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121931.html#10121931 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : Sex sells. Point. Blank. Period....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121912.html#10121912 Author: ScorpioLuv
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:42pm

Sex sells. Point. Blank. Period.

Thats life. How do u think stripping and being a p0rn star became so lucrative?

 Jenna Jameson is worth $30 million off of being the best in her business at the time and even opened up her own companies off of it. 
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:42:11 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121912.html#10121912 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : nita in here dropping jewels n...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121895.html#10121895 Author: nycdiva357
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:30pm

nita in here dropping jewels n shyt.

i like that
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:30:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121895.html#10121895 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : nitabug wrote:So if guys...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121890.html#10121890 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:28pm

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

So if guys are the problems, and they way guys are judging women is the problem...

raise your damn sons better. while watching the superbowl with her daughter, she could have made it a teachable moment for her son.
Lamp

But no one wants to deal with that sooo.
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:28:05 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121890.html#10121890 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : Yeah the only way she will be...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121868.html#10121868 Author: niecy
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:08pm

Yeah the only way she will be able to keep her daughter away from that is to keep her in a bubble for the rest of her life]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:08:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121868.html#10121868 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : madame pink wrote: “I...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121866.html#10121866 Author: blaquefoxx
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:06pm

Originally posted by madame pink madame pink wrote:

“I do not want my daughter to grow up in a world where the boys and men around her constantly judge her morality in terms of physical attraction. I don’t want her to hear things like, “waiting till marriage is sexy” or “it’s a turn-off when girls smoke”. I want her to hear things like, “your virtue is worth too much to throw away on someone who is not going to commit his life to you.” I want her to hear someone say, “smoking damages your body, and you’re too precious to damage for recreation.” I want her to grow up in a world where men and women talk about issues of virtue and modesty in terms of objective truth, not in terms of sex appeal.”

People kill me. Angry We cannot control the entire world. It is the duty of the parent to teach and guide their children so that they can deal responsibility no matter what is going on in the world. All of the things she wants her child to hear is on her as the parent to instill these things. Who the freak cares what Beyonce was doing on stage. It was a freaking act and that's all. People are reading too much into it. If they were siting home watching should have turned the damn tv off.
This]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:06:59 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121866.html#10121866 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : “I do not want my daughter...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121860.html#10121860 Author: madame pink
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 5:03pm

“I do not want my daughter to grow up in a world where the boys and men around her constantly judge her morality in terms of physical attraction. I don’t want her to hear things like, “waiting till marriage is sexy” or “it’s a turn-off when girls smoke”. I want her to hear things like, “your virtue is worth too much to throw away on someone who is not going to commit his life to you.” I want her to hear someone say, “smoking damages your body, and you’re too precious to damage for recreation.” I want her to grow up in a world where men and women talk about issues of virtue and modesty in terms of objective truth, not in terms of sex appeal.”

People kill me. Angry We cannot control the entire world. It is the duty of the parent to teach and guide their children so that they can deal responsibility no matter what is going on in the world. All of the things she wants her child to hear is on her as the parent to instill these things. Who the freak cares what Beyonce was doing on stage. It was a freaking act and that's all. People are reading too much into it. If they were siting home watching should have turned the damn tv off.


Edited by madame pink - Feb 05 2013 at 5:04pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:03:26 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121860.html#10121860 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : Well that Go daddy commerical...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121848.html#10121848 Author: Miss SDY
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 4:50pm

Well that Go daddy commerical kiss was disgustingly loud....... Sick

 
They need to leave Bey alone. There is much worse on tv than her gyrating her pelvis around on a stage. I really think this is more about her support of our President. Which has already been mentioned in this thread..
 
 
 


Edited by Miss SDY - Feb 05 2013 at 4:52pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:50:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121848.html#10121848 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : nitabug wrote:So if guys...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121847.html#10121847 Author: _ConcreteRose_
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 4:50pm

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

So if guys are the problems, and they way guys are judging women is the problem...

raise your damn sons better. while watching the superbowl with her daughter, she could have made it a teachable moment for her son.
]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:50:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121847.html#10121847 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : Yup--and I wish someone would...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121819.html#10121819 Author: Harmonii
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 4:23pm

Yup--and I wish someone would call them out on it on too.]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:23:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121819.html#10121819 <![CDATA[Sex, Shame, and the Superbowl : nitabug wrote:The conservatives...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121804.html#10121804 Author: sexibeach
Subject: 354299
Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 4:12pm

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

The conservatives are coming after Bey's neck for supporting barack...first the inauguration, now this bs. lol

Where was this article when the lovely Madonna graced the stage?

this is what i've been saying all along, its her association with the President.. raising cash for him, singing at the inauguration period.. they hate him, so now they hate her..Obama is the fault of everything in the world so they say.. its his fault.   


Edited by sexibeach - Feb 05 2013 at 4:14pm]]> Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:12:27 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/sex-shame-and-the-superbowl_topic354299_post10121804.html#10121804