Black Hair Media Forum : i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Sun, 26 May 2013 01:29:29 +0000 Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:54:49 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=354417 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : PurpleHaze wrote:just for fun, ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134410.html#10134410 Author: ShadyLady
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:54pm

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

just for fun, LOL do you think   your guy would tell his pal if  he found signs of her cheating on the computer?


My boyfriend would tell/has told.

He saw his homeboy's girl on that homegrown freaks site, and not only told dude, but sent him the link.

But I guarantee you if it was a case where I had dirt on one of his friends, he would say "we should stay out of it" and "mind our business".

Bros before hos I guess .]]> Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:54:49 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134410.html#10134410 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : If you aren&#039;t going to tell...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134404.html#10134404 Author: keepgrowing
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:50pm

If you aren't going to tell her then don't hang out with them anymore. No need to put yourself in that awkward situation and it sucks that everyone in that group knows she is being cheated on now, but her.]]> Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:50:54 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134404.html#10134404 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : Wildfire wrote: Az~Maverick...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134398.html#10134398 Author: Az~Maverick
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:42pm

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:


Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

STAY. OUT. OF. IT.

If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up".



if we would all quit this mindset, maybe the world would be a better place. --and that goes for everything







Yeah......but in THIS case, ( unless she was being physically abused) her staying in it could backfire. Plus, she hasn't even known them that long, so what would be the point?

Edited by Az~Maverick - Feb 11 2013 at 3:47pm]]> Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:42:26 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134398.html#10134398 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : Op, I&#039;m glad you have some...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134378.html#10134378 Author: BBpants
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:26pm

Op, I'm glad you have some common sense unlike some folks and didn't spill the beans!! LOL]]> Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:26:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134378.html#10134378 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : Az~Maverick wrote:STAY. OUT....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134147.html#10134147 Author: Wildfire
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 12:34pm

Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

STAY. OUT. OF. IT.

If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up".



if we would all quit this mindset, maybe the world would be a better place. --and that goes for everything





]]> Mon, 11 Feb 2013 12:34:37 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10134147.html#10134147 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : Since you only known them for...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10133977.html#10133977 Author: Ds2nice
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 10:34am

Since you only known them for a short period of time, I would mind my own business.  

]]> Mon, 11 Feb 2013 10:34:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10133977.html#10133977 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : ShadyLady wrote:If I really...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10131005.html#10131005 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 2:09am

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

If I really liked her and saw her as a friend, I would tell. Matter of fact, I probably woulda called her to come over right then and there so she could see for herself.

I would do it cuz I would wanna know.

If one of my friends found out my man was cheating on me and then waited til after the ish hit the fan to tell me she's been looking me in my face all along, I would feel some type of way.

If you do decide not to say anything, don't ever let on you knew and didn't say anything. She may resent you letting her be the last to know. Just play shocked along with everyone else.

we all hung out earlier today.  i felt weird but i am not going to do anything about it and pretend as if i didn't see anything.  there's really no way for me to feel comfortable enough saying it and i'm not about to go hunting for him on the site and fwd the info to her...it's just doing too much.  im the type of person who lives with a heavy conscious when i feel like ive done something wrong but most ppl don't think that way so i'll have to ignore that side of myself. 
]]> Sun, 10 Feb 2013 02:09:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10131005.html#10131005 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : PurpleHaze wrote:just for...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130995.html#10130995 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 1:58am

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

just for fun, LOL do you think   your guy would tell his pal if  he found signs of her cheating on the computer?

yeah i think he would.  we already saw one of his best friends girls riding in the car with another dude one day in traffic.  he called and told him...i was LOLing but i think he did it bc he really doesn't like her.
]]> Sun, 10 Feb 2013 01:58:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130995.html#10130995 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : foxyroy19 wrote: ms_wonderland...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130990.html#10130990 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 1:54am

Originally posted by foxyroy19 foxyroy19 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I think it would end badly for me too.




Yeah. The cheater might spill the beans on your man too

lol, i was waiting for a comment like this.

but no...my bew is wide open. and def ain't spending his nights at other folks houses.


Edited by ms_wonderland - Feb 10 2013 at 1:55am]]> Sun, 10 Feb 2013 01:54:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130990.html#10130990 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : If I really liked her and saw...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130984.html#10130984 Author: ShadyLady
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 1:49am

If I really liked her and saw her as a friend, I would tell. Matter of fact, I probably woulda called her to come over right then and there so she could see for herself.

I would do it cuz I would wanna know.

If one of my friends found out my man was cheating on me and then waited til after the ish hit the fan to tell me she's been looking me in my face all along, I would feel some type of way.

If you do decide not to say anything, don't ever let on you knew and didn't say anything. She may resent you letting her be the last to know. Just play shocked along with everyone else.]]> Sun, 10 Feb 2013 01:49:55 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130984.html#10130984 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : ms_wonderland wrote:I think...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130417.html#10130417 Author: foxyroy19
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 7:07pm

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I think it would end badly for me too.




Yeah. The cheater might spill the beans on your man too ]]> Sat, 09 Feb 2013 19:07:13 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130417.html#10130417 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : make the thread CC ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130087.html#10130087 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 3:07pm

make the thread CC
]]> Sat, 09 Feb 2013 15:07:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10130087.html#10130087 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : zolloh wrote:so how old...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10129382.html#10129382 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 1:43am

Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

so how old should a friendship be before it's appropriate for one to tell a friend that her bf is cheating, since the consensus is that 6 months is not long enough? Geek
Right?

This topic really does need to be made into a thread.LOL


Edited by carolina cutie - Feb 09 2013 at 1:43am]]> Sat, 09 Feb 2013 01:43:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10129382.html#10129382 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : STAY. OUT. OF. IT.If she doesn&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10129340.html#10129340 Author: Az~Maverick
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 12:30am

STAY. OUT. OF. IT.

If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up".]]> Sat, 09 Feb 2013 00:30:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10129340.html#10129340 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : so how old should a friendship...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128791.html#10128791 Author: zolloh
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 6:49pm

so how old should a friendship be before it's appropriate for one to tell a friend that her bf is cheating, since the consensus is that 6 months is not long enough? Geek
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:49:43 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128791.html#10128791 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : go ahead and drop us the name...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128788.html#10128788 Author: tropical-punch
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 6:44pm

go ahead and drop us the name of the dating sites and his username. TIA.]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:44:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128788.html#10128788 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : imo, AIDS is too real to be leaving...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128754.html#10128754 Author: katakana89
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 6:16pm

imo, AIDS is too real to be leaving her in the dark. at the ame time, collecting "evidence" and stuff sounds really out there to me. like, are you really gonna play detective and for someone you just met?
i honestly wouldn't know what to do in your situation op. if it's my bestie though I will def snitch; I got my own man and she's not a petty woman to think I'm trying to do her wrong. 
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:16:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128754.html#10128754 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : just for fun, do you think your...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128646.html#10128646 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 5:20pm

just for fun, LOL do you think   your guy would tell his pal if  he found signs of her cheating on the computer?]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 17:20:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128646.html#10128646 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : Addicted19034 wrote:It&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128610.html#10128610 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 5:04pm

Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

It's a weird situation because if the time frame

Since you just met the girl it's kinda awakened but at the same time you like her and want the relationship to grow.

If t was my girl I would tell her. But it's hard to say in this situation. I would let it ride out for now.

that's what i told my friend yesterday...like if it were her, it would be no question...but this, ahhhh...



Lamp that would be a good spin off @ CC
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 17:04:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128610.html#10128610 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : MzCaliky wrote: Ha,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128605.html#10128605 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 5:02pm

Originally posted by MzCaliky MzCaliky wrote:

Ha, Ha. You think your boyfriend doesn't already know his close friend is cheating?

he told me that he mentioned they wasnt really fckin but never said anything about cheating...which leads me to believe it's something that's started recently.

]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 17:02:00 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128605.html#10128605 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : Ha, Ha. You think your boyfriend...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128596.html#10128596 Author: MzCaliky
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 4:57pm

Ha, Ha. You think your boyfriend doesn't already know his close friend is cheating? ]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:57:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128596.html#10128596 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : carolina cutie wrote:&#039;She...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128594.html#10128594 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 4:57pm

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

'She has to know her man is cheating in her so there is no need for me to tell her.'

Where's Samone at? She needs to make a thread on this.Evil Smile


LOL
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:57:34 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128594.html#10128594 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : It&#039;s a weird situation because...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128581.html#10128581 Author: Addicted19034
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 4:52pm

It's a weird situation because if the time frame

Since you just met the girl it's kinda awakened but at the same time you like her and want the relationship to grow.

If t was my girl I would tell her. But it's hard to say in this situation. I would let it ride out for now.]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:52:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128581.html#10128581 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : &#039;She has to know her man...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128577.html#10128577 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 4:49pm

'She has to know her man is cheating in her so there is no need for me to tell her.'

Where's Samone at? She needs to make a thread on this.Evil Smile
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:49:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128577.html#10128577 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : type it with your chest girl....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128565.html#10128565 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 4:44pm

type it with your chest girl. we don't know these coloureds]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:44:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128565.html#10128565 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : BeatriceBean wrote:Do you...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128554.html#10128554 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 4:39pm

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Do you recall the names of the hookup websites? Do you remember his screenname? If you do, you don't have to say "Your man is cheating and I have proof." Send her an e-mail with a link to his profile, just as a "thought you should see this" and she'll connect the dots for herself. Most likely she'll ask him to own the account and see all the activity.

If you're not feeling so brave, make up a fake e-mail (that you still think she'd open mail from) and there you go. Don't respond to any responses about who you are, how you know them, etc. If you take that route, delete the account as soon as you know she's received it.

yeah i remember the name of the two sites and his username.

there's more factors in this that leads me to believe that she doesn't really suspect any of this stuff but i can't say without getting overly specific.  

i have formed an independent friendship with her apart from the guys' friendship which is why i felt any sort of obligation.

@coco, i do worry that he would remember he left it open here so all points would lead back to me and i'm not up for dealing with that.  on principle it's his fault but it just won't be a good look.

LOL@sang


]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:39:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128554.html#10128554 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : but OP sounds like she&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128120.html#10128120 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 1:34pm

but OP sounds like she's  trying to form a friendship with the woman.
 


Edited by PurpleHaze - Feb 08 2013 at 1:35pm]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 13:34:54 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128120.html#10128120 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : lmaooo oh. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128097.html#10128097 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 1:24pm

lmaooo oh.]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 13:24:53 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128097.html#10128097 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : EPITOME wrote: ThoughtCouture...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128090.html#10128090 Author: sugabanana
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 1:21pm

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

anyway, i didn't read all the pages...but if your sloppy azz leaves evidence on MY computer...then you MUST want me to know.  and well...if you WANT me to know then you MUST want my girl to know...so...


that ain't her girl...some new bish she just met.


Lawdddddddddd
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 13:21:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128090.html#10128090 <![CDATA[i hate cheaters...and i hate my nosey a*s... : ThoughtCouture wrote:anyway,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128086.html#10128086 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 354417
Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 1:18pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

anyway, i didn't read all the pages...but if your sloppy azz leaves evidence on MY computer...then you MUST want me to know.  and well...if you WANT me to know then you MUST want my girl to know...so...


that ain't her girl...some new bish she just met.
]]> Fri, 08 Feb 2013 13:18:30 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-hate-cheatersand-i-hate-my-nosey-as_topic354417_post10128086.html#10128086