Black Hair Media Forum : I blame the mother http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Wed, 19 Jun 2013 06:33:50 +0000 Wed, 05 Dec 2012 17:43:56 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=351707 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[I blame the mother : UGH...those picsI can&#039;t with...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970897.html#9970897 Author: Az~Maverick
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 5:43pm

UGH...those pics Cry 

I can't with this whole story....
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 17:43:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970897.html#9970897 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Sadly, I know of women with children...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970890.html#9970890 Author: LilMissSunshine
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 5:35pm

Sadly, I know of women with children that dated someone for a shorter length of time and moved th in to their home.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 17:35:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970890.html#9970890 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Even in death he still had a hold...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970800.html#9970800 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:23pm

Even in death he still had a hold on her. He should not have been the one holding her in hospital. Argh to this story. So frustrating that we keep hearing about these preventable abuse situations. 

There was one story where the mother moved in her bf who was a long distance driver. Every morning (like 4am) the driver would take the woman's little 8 yr old girl for 'company' and because the little girl apparently loved the early morning drives. The mum was okay with this, never questioned it as it was normal. (yeah right)

Anyway dude killed the girl and himself. It came out he was abusing the girl for the longest time. No-one knows why he killed her and himself on that day. Maybe the little girl was about to tell? 

The mother was receiving so much sympathy but I couldn't get past him taking her to long distance drives. like WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.   
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 16:23:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970800.html#9970800 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Omg smdh ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970770.html#9970770 Author: Faithfully2002
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:13pm

Omg smdh]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 16:13:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970770.html#9970770 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Lady ICE wrote:*sigh* i really...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970764.html#9970764 Author: Wildfire
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:10pm

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

*sigh* i really just cannot take this kinda news anymore. 



especially now that i have a daughter. my heart just bleeds...so sweet, so innocent...i cannot even fathom
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 16:10:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970764.html#9970764 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : smfhsome women truly ain&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970621.html#9970621 Author: mrshairdo
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:35pm

smfh
some women truly ain't shiit
and im glad the "anti-victim blamers" knew to sit out of this one
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 14:35:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970621.html#9970621 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : The mother should be charged....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970601.html#9970601 Author: Aerie
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:25pm

The mother should be charged. Because there is no way that you are so unaware of all of these things. 

The jury's disgust as his actions likely clouded their judgements on the mother. 

They both should be put away. I'm so disgusted with the mother, moreso than the man. 
Why? Because this idiot was a mother, dated a guy for a mere what? 3 months? Then allowed him to move into their home, abuse her baby girl and allow it, and then act innocent and like she's a victim? 
SMH. I have no pity or sympathy for her. 
The man even looks like a blasted creep. 
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 14:25:40 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970601.html#9970601 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Will never understand how a person...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970523.html#9970523 Author: solena
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 1:41pm

Will never understand how a person can birth a child then sit quietly and even defend a mofo that tortures that same baby you created. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 13:41:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970523.html#9970523 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Yeah she knew. Some of those injuries...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970437.html#9970437 Author: DWeird
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:56pm

Angry Yeah she knew. Some of those injuries are old. She needs to be locked up and he needs to die slowly and painfully. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 12:56:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970437.html#9970437 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : What the HELL did I just read/see???????????? ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970434.html#9970434 Author: Alias_Avi
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:55pm

What the HELL did I just read/see????????????]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 12:55:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970434.html#9970434 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Spokenword wrote:In MOST cases,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970431.html#9970431 Author: Prtybrwneye_z
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:53pm

Originally posted by Spokenword Spokenword wrote:

In MOST cases, i believe the mother should be jailed as well for failing to protect the innocent. when they know their children are getting absued and they do nothing....they should get some sort of sentence. sorry. don't care about the victim role when it comes to children.

 
He needs to be stoned to death.
 


This...there is no way in hell that mother didn't know that child was being abused, not with the level of injury described not to mention the report stated some of the broken ribs were at least 10 days old. That baby would have been crying and showing signs of discomfort which would have raised a red flag. I hope Karma hits the mother hard, she is not a victim in this as far as I'm concerned! ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 12:53:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970431.html#9970431 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : kill his ass ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970401.html#9970401 Author: Rumbera
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:43pm

kill his ass]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 12:43:44 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970401.html#9970401 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : ;_;there are no words that express...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970388.html#9970388 Author: yahya
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:38pm

;_;
there are no words that express how horrible, gross, and twisted this is.

]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 12:38:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970388.html#9970388 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Didn&#039;t read full article...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970141.html#9970141 Author: Miss SDY
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 9:02am

Didn't read full article because I'm not even trying to take my anger level to the max so soon this morning.. I need him to burn alive and then burn in hell and I need her mother to just kill herself bc she knew what was going on..

That poor baby!!!! That baby suffered so much!!! I can't with women who choose men over their babies!! Your job as a mother is to protect your offspring from harm. She needs not have more children ever in her life. She really needs jail time for that. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 09:02:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970141.html#9970141 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : both killers need to be released...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970135.html#9970135 Author: Chyna_Li
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:56am

both killers need to be released into society. drop them off in the middle of town. make an announcement for the towns people and im sure they will think of the appropriate punishment for them.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:56:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970135.html#9970135 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : its too early in the morning for...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970133.html#9970133 Author: Chyna_Li
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:55am

its too early in the morning for this
the mother better thank her lucky stars that she wasn't charged.  there is no way in the hell that anybody, esp a child could be walking, crawling and running properly with broken ribs and other major internal injuries.  that poor baby died a slow horrible death.
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:55:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970133.html#9970133 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Ahh, OK. So we move men in our...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970132.html#9970132 Author: BrownQtee
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:54am

Ahh, OK. So we move men in our homes after 3 months now? Even worse that there was a small child involved. She needs to kindly climb on top of a bridge, and jump off. This type of news angers me to no end. Pieces of sh*t.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:54:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970132.html#9970132 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : I am soooo angry I hate this type...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970131.html#9970131 Author: laceyfront
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:53am

I am soooo angry I hate this type of sh*t!!! I blame them both!]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:53:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970131.html#9970131 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : In MOST cases, i believe the mother...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970130.html#9970130 Author: Spokenword
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:51am

In MOST cases, i believe the mother should be jailed as well for failing to protect the innocent. when they know their children are getting absued and they do nothing....they should get some sort of sentence. sorry. don't care about the victim role when it comes to children.

 
He needs to be stoned to death.
 
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:51:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970130.html#9970130 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : I blame the rapistthe mother is...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970129.html#9970129 Author: nitabug
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:50am

I blame the rapist
the mother is a terrible mom though
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:50:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970129.html#9970129 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Yeah he does look like a weirdo....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970122.html#9970122 Author: keelolo1
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:45am

Yeah he does look like a weirdo. Hope the mom gets charged. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:45:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970122.html#9970122 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : He LOOKS like a pedo. I don&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970012.html#9970012 Author: niecy
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 5:22am

He LOOKS like a pedo. I don't understand women who allow this to happen to their babies. I just can't....If it was my child he'd be dead, or something close to it, when I first found out he was touchin' on my baby. Exactly why I can probably count on one hand who I'd trust around my kids.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 05:22:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970012.html#9970012 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : *sigh* i really just cannot take...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970006.html#9970006 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:43am

*sigh* i really just cannot take this kinda news anymore. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 04:43:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9970006.html#9970006 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : I don&#039;t know why women do...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969999.html#9969999 Author: BBpants
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:16am

I don't know why women do this....I'm side eyeing my friend right now for letting a guy she been dating for a year move into her house with her 1 year old son and he babysits the boy too smh.....I'm sorry to say this but I don't trust any men with kids except family (who you still have to be careful with!). There are too many perverts in the world and I rather be safe than sorry. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 04:16:42 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969999.html#9969999 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : the hate I feel for the both of...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969997.html#9969997 Author: newdiva1
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:12am

the hate I feel for the both of them right now is unparalleled.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 04:12:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969997.html#9969997 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : I couldn&#039;t finish reading...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969994.html#9969994 Author: ImThatDiva
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:07am

I couldn't finish reading as this is just to fucking disturbing for me. Please tell me the mother was charged to. They should send her to a men's prison and drop both of them in general population so the same thing that was done to this poor baby is done to them.and they should be nursed back to full health and repeat the process for the duration of their sentence.

I hate this freaking world.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 04:07:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969994.html#9969994 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : Dirty-ass product of inbreeding,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969991.html#9969991 Author: Midna
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 4:00am

Dirty-ass product of inbreeding, I am legit angered by this case and wish THE ABSOLUTE WORST on this man! I'm so DISGUSTED with the mother because there is no way she didn't know about this!

That poor baby must have had bruises, scars, her private parts must have looked terrible, and I bet that poor child was terrified of that man!

He basically had permission to abuse the poor child by the mother's hands! Moving in a boyfriend after three damn months??? I can't even..!
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 04:00:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969991.html#9969991 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : LOOKING LIKE A FUCKING LEPRECHAUN.ROT...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969990.html#9969990 Author: Midna
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:57am

LOOKING LIKE A FUCKING LEPRECHAUN.

ROT IN JAIL, FIRE-CROTCHED BASTARD. YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW. THE MEN IN JAIL WILL MAKE SURE THE SAME SEXUAL ABUSE YOU PERFORMED ON THAT POOR CHILD WILL BE PERFORMED ON YOU.

Fucking asshole. I hate to say this but I'd rather that child be dead than have to be punished by living with that bastard because of her mom!

"Oh no, my toddler sex toy is dying," FOH.
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 03:57:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969990.html#9969990 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : there is no way the mother did...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969987.html#9969987 Author: bindy
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:48am

there is no way the mother did not know what was going on......]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2012 03:48:39 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969987.html#9969987 <![CDATA[I blame the mother : I always do in these cases. Like...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/i-blame-the-mother_topic351707_post9969984.html#9969984 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 351707
Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:44am

I always do in these cases. Like WHY? why do you have to move in a man even after a year? why can't you just date outside the home? why bring these monsters around you babies? WHY? and you tell me you can't tell the difference in your baby once these men have done despicable things to your baby? 

There should be some sort of programme running for keeping your baby safe in the home. Some people need telling. 

Kiss of life from the monster who killed her: Moment paedophile rushed into hospital carrying dying 15-month-old girl he abused

  • Barry McCarney was jailed for life at Dungannon Crown Court for the murder of Millie Martin
  • The toddler suffered a catalogue of injuries including 21 broken ribs and the head injury that killed her
  • Her mother, McCarney's then girlfriend Rachael Martin, was cleared of allowing her daughter's death through willful neglect



Cradled in his arms, Barry McCarney is caught on CCTV desperately trying to bring his girlfriend's dying daughter back to life.

But the haunting footage, captured in Erne Hospital, in Northern Ireland, disguises the horrific reality of what has just happened. 



McCarney is no desperate father giving the kiss of life to his 15-month-old step-child. Instead, he is the perverted monster who abused Millie Martin so badly that she died of her injuries.

Yesterday, a judge sitting at Dungannon Crown Court branded the 33-year-old's crimes despicable. He described the December 2009 murder as 'almost beyond understanding.'


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Guilty: McCarney, pictured with his 15-month-old victim in his arms, was found guilty of her murder by a unanimous verdict

Guilty: McCarney, pictured with his 15-month-old victim in his arms, was found guilty of her murder by a unanimous verdict

Jailed: Barry McCarney pictured at A&amp;E department of the Erne Hospital with Mille Martin in his arms on the evening she was admitted, she died from head injuries the following day

Jailed: Barry McCarney pictured at A&E department of the Erne Hospital with Mille Martin in his arms on the evening she was admitted, she died from head injuries the following day

Horrific: Millie died in hospital a day after she was admitted with devastating injuries

Horrific: Millie died in hospital a day after she was admitted with devastating injuries

Behind bars: McCarney will find out what minimum tariff he must serve in the new year

Behind bars: McCarney will find out what minimum tariff he must serve in the new year



McCarney, from County Tyrone, met Millie's mother Rachael Martin just three months before the little girl's death.

He quickly eased his way into the family home in Enniskillen which allowed him access to Millie.

During a ten-week trial, the court heard how he had physically and sexually abused the toddler until she was left with a number of fatal injuries, including the head wound that killed her.

 

A pathologist found that Millie had suffered 21 cracked ribs, seven of which were old, while the rest had happened in the ten days before her death.

Multiple bruises were also found on the youngster's body along with a clearly visible oval shaped bump on her forehead.



During the post-mortem examination, the pathologist found injuries to her abdomen caused by punching or prodding which would also have been fatal.

Millie had also been sexually assaulted.The prosecution described the attacks on her as vile and sadistic.


Barry McCarney
Tragic: A still taken from footage showing 15-month-old Millie Martin days before she died

Tragic: Barry McCarney, left, was jailed for killing Millie Martin, right, pictured just days before her death



McCarney blamed Millie's mother Rachael, claiming at trial that she had inflicted the injuries on her own daughter and that he was sickened by her death.

Speaking only through his barrister, he alleged that Ms Martin did not want social services involved because she had done these 'terrible things' herself. 

But in a case with no forensic evidence to suggest who inflicted Millie's injuries, the jury rejected McCarney's claims and accepted that Ms Martin had unwittingly let a monster into her home, taking just three hours to reach a unanimous verdict.

He was found guilty of murder, sexual assault and causing grievous bodily harm. 

Ms Martin sobbed as she was cleared of allowing her daughter's death through willful neglect. She was heard to say that justice had been done for her daughter.



McCarney's relatives shouted 'innocent' as they left the courtroom. Meanwhile Ms Martin's family issued a statement saying the family would now be able to grieve properly as a result of the verdict. 

They described the last three years as a 'waking nightmare' and described McCarney as a 'disgusting individual'.

They also questioned why Ms Martin was ever prosecuted in the first place.

Her brother, Matthew, speaking on behalf of the family said the police decision to prosecute her was 'shocking' at a time when she should have been left to grieve for Baby Millie. 

McCarney will be sentenced in the New Year.



Neil Anderson, head of the NSPCC, said Millie will be remembered as the victim of 'one of the most horrific cases of child abuse Northern Ireland has ever seen'.

He added: 'One clear message from this deeply disturbing case is the need for vigilance among healthcare professionals, family, friends, neighbours and the community as a whole.

'It is vitally important that everyone who has a role in working with and caring for children is aware of the signs of abuse. It is also essential that having recognised the signs of abuse that appropriate and timely action is taken.'




 
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