Black Hair Media Forum : How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Wed, 19 Jun 2013 06:06:22 +0000 Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:20:47 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=353601 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : NO man, no matter his sexual...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083787.html#10083787 Author: purpulicious01
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Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 8:20pm

NO man, no matter his sexual orientation, should call a woman a B****, joking or not. I seriously question the 'manhood' of a 'man' who feels that it is aok to call a woman out of her name, even in jest.

I've noticed that the word has become more acceptable to throw around as a term of 'affection',  but I've never liked it. 

We allow others to call us disrespectful names, and then complain how women are disrespected by others... Makes no sense.


Edited by purpulicious01 - Jan 18 2013 at 8:24pm]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:20:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083787.html#10083787 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Hello! Tsuki wrote:Do any...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083778.html#10083778 Author: nitabug
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 8:14pm

Originally posted by Hello! Tsuki Hello! Tsuki wrote:

Do any of you guys use the words fag and dyke?
yes]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:14:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083778.html#10083778 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I don&#039;t generally hang out...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083776.html#10083776 Author: nitabug
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 8:14pm

I don't generally hang out with gay men.]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:14:07 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083776.html#10083776 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I say b!tch all the time WITH...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083770.html#10083770 Author: ShadyLady
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 8:12pm

I say b!tch all the time WITH CLOSE FRIENDS like, "B!tch, you so silly!"

As long as he's using it WITH me and not at me, I'm cool. I don't use that F word period, so it doesn't matter.

Like Patti said, I'm more offended when gay men refer to women as "fish" cuz I don't like what that stems from.]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:12:42 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083770.html#10083770 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Hello! Tsuki wrote:Do any...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083723.html#10083723 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 7:32pm

Originally posted by Hello! Tsuki Hello! Tsuki wrote:

Do any of you guys use the words fag and dyke?
No ma'am.
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:32:39 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083723.html#10083723 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Nope, dont like it. Man or woman...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083707.html#10083707 Author: mzmee
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 7:15pm

Nope, dont like it. Man or woman]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:15:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083707.html#10083707 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Do any of you guys use the words...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083705.html#10083705 Author: Hello! Tsuki
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 7:14pm

Do any of you guys use the words fag and dyke? ]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:14:00 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083705.html#10083705 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : nekamarie83 wrote: carolina...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083701.html#10083701 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 7:09pm

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I first thought of the sassy gay friend series.LOL
Thanked!! I love sassy gay friend!!

What are you doing?! WHAT, WHAT, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!

The one with Adam & Eve-- E: *gasp* No way!!    SGF: *nods* Yahweh!!
I loved that one.CryLOL]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:09:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083701.html#10083701 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I used to be a faghag and I never...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083700.html#10083700 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 7:07pm

I used to be a faghag and I never had a problem with it. But the word is just overused now. I though "fish" was more insulting.< id="adlesse_unifier_magic_element_id" style="display:none;">]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:07:55 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083700.html#10083700 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I don&#039;t like the word, period....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083697.html#10083697 Author: iSMILE13
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 7:03pm

I don't like the word, period. I never understood why girls/gay men call their friends bi?!$es. Example: hanging with my B's tonight" ]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:03:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083697.html#10083697 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : nekamarie83 wrote:Lately?...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083684.html#10083684 Author: iGotSunshine
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 6:54pm

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Lately? This is old hat. Where have you…?

With me, depends on the tone. For the MOST part, I've not heard any of the mentioned in a disrespectful tone from gay men toward woman. It's more of a term of endearment in my circles. When disrespect/shade is thrown, you'd be more likely to hear "" where I am.

And for the record: Yes. Yes I do, have, will use the word fag to refer to my gay friends an lizzie or dyke with my lesbian friends-- to their faces. We aight like that because we're friends and it's been ok-ed. I'm not stupid enough to do it to random people.

Eta: FYI-- that censored word is ۟nt
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 18:54:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083684.html#10083684 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : carolina cutie wrote:I first...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083679.html#10083679 Author: nekamarie83
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 6:51pm

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I first thought of the sassy gay friend series.LOL
Thanked!! I love sassy gay friend!!

What are you doing?! WHAT, WHAT, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!

The one with Adam & Eve-- E: *gasp* No way!!    SGF: *nods* Yahweh!! ]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 18:51:31 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083679.html#10083679 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Lady ICE wrote:i dont like...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083642.html#10083642 Author: gabi03
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 6:28pm

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

i dont like when anyone says it.

this ^^^

some of these gay men think because they suck dyck, they get all sorts of passes to say the most off the wall rude sh*t. I had to take a break from my group of gays, they were pushing it last year. 


Edited by gabi03 - Jan 18 2013 at 6:29pm]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 18:28:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083642.html#10083642 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : i dont like when anyone says it. ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083597.html#10083597 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 6:02pm

i dont like when anyone says it.]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 18:02:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083597.html#10083597 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Well even tho I love me some Scorpion...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083560.html#10083560 Author: laceyfront
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 5:28pm

Well even tho I love me some Scorpion show on youtube I have to say they use bytch a whole lot and had the nerve to have an episode telling us ladies to stay in our lane as far as calling them the f word. I don't use it but I think the two words are being said in the same light hearted way and neither is any worse than the other.]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 17:28:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083560.html#10083560 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : no, it&#039;s just like people...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083535.html#10083535 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 5:05pm

no, it's just like people who hang out with blacks and think they can say nga.

i might be my bishes bish but im not your bish, nga.




Edited by ms_wonderland - Jan 18 2013 at 5:06pm]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 17:05:53 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083535.html#10083535 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I first thought of the sassy gay...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083529.html#10083529 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 5:00pm

I first thought of the sassy gay friend series.LOL


]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 17:00:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10083529.html#10083529 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Lately? This is old hat. Where...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082936.html#10082936 Author: nekamarie83
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:41pm

Lately? This is old hat. Where have you…?

With me, depends on the tone. For the MOST part, I've not heard any of the mentioned in a disrespectful tone from gay men toward woman. It's more of a term of endearment in my circles. When disrespect/shade is thrown, you'd be more likely to hear "" where I am.

And for the record: Yes. Yes I do, have, will use the word fag to refer to my gay friends an lizzie or dyke with my lesbian friends-- to their faces. We aight like that because we're friends and it's been ok-ed. I'm not stupid enough to do it to random people.

Eta: FYI-- that censored word is ۟nt

Edited by nekamarie83 - Jan 18 2013 at 12:43pm]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:41:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082936.html#10082936 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : The same way I feel about anybody...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082933.html#10082933 Author: SimplyPut
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:41pm

The same way I feel about anybody calling me a bishStern Smile]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:41:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082933.html#10082933 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I don&#039;t like any kind of...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082927.html#10082927 Author: Finesseful
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:39pm

I don't like any kind of man calling me a bitch. I just feel some men feel they have more free reign to say those things being that they are gay.
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:39:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082927.html#10082927 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I don&#039;t allow anyone to call...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082924.html#10082924 Author: danieb23
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:38pm

I don't allow anyone to call me out of my name, nor do I call anyone out of theirs (unless your a basic bish)

Maybe if women stopped referring to each other as bishes, hoes, and heifers, they would see that it is just as unacceptable to do the same.


]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:38:49 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082924.html#10082924 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : india100 wrote: I don&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082918.html#10082918 Author: Finesseful
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:37pm

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

I don't play like that . I would never enjoy a male or female calling me that foul name . Why focus on gay men ? Stern Smile


Just a casual discussion I was having with someone over tea.
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:37:49 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082918.html#10082918 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Finesseful wrote: tatee...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082915.html#10082915 Author: tatee
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:36pm

Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

so youre not mad when straight men call women thatConfused


Where did I say that?

if you dont like whats being said youre not going to like it no matter who says it.
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:36:31 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082915.html#10082915 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : Sang Froid wrote: tatee...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082909.html#10082909 Author: tatee
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:35pm

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

so youre not mad when straight men call women thatConfused

I don't see what this has to do with the premise of the thread.
You tried it though.


tried what? doesnt it all depend on what youre comfortable with.
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:35:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082909.html#10082909 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : I don&#039;t play like that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082906.html#10082906 Author: india100
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:35pm

I don't play like that . I would never enjoy a male or female calling me that foul name . Why focus on gay men ? Stern Smile]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:35:22 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082906.html#10082906 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : tatee wrote:so youre not...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082900.html#10082900 Author: Finesseful
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:34pm

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

so youre not mad when straight men call women thatConfused


Where did I say that?
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:34:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082900.html#10082900 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : It all depends on how he says...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082902.html#10082902 Author: BBpants
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:34pm

It all depends on how he says it. If he's saying it playfully, it's cool for me. I use bitch a lot in my vocab so I understand LOL
]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:34:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082902.html#10082902 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082898.html#10082898 Author: Alias_Avi
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:33pm

]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:33:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082898.html#10082898 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : tatee wrote:so youre not...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082893.html#10082893 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:32pm

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

so youre not mad when straight men call women thatConfused

I don't see what this has to do with the premise of the thread.
You tried it though.

]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:32:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082893.html#10082893 <![CDATA[How do u feel about gay men callin women bitches? : so youre not mad when straight...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082890.html#10082890 Author: tatee
Subject: 353601
Posted: Jan 18 2013 at 12:30pm

so youre not mad when straight men call women thatConfused]]> Fri, 18 Jan 2013 12:30:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/how-do-u-feel-about-gay-men-callin-women-bitches_topic353601_post10082890.html#10082890