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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : Chile, you were raped. No means...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=69240">ILOVEBEYONCE</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;19&nbsp;2013 at 8:54pm<br /><br />Chile, you were raped. <br><br>No means no. Any time you tell a guy and he doesn't immediately stop, not only doe she not respect you and your feelings, he is forcing himself on you. <br><br>I know it may be hard to see it as rape because it was your first experience so it may seem confusing or hard to discern anything, but nonetheless, he took advantage of you. <br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=17070">Lady_Q_Tee</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 7:14pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by khivey" alt="Originally posted by khivey" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>khivey wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" alt="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Random Thoughts wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by khivey" alt="Originally posted by khivey" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>khivey wrote:</strong><br /><br />Yep, you were raped and <strong>the fact that you are underage</strong> that man needs to go to jail. But the fact that you are already making excuses for him, tells me you will continue to deal with this man. I hope you get help <br /><br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />As far as <em>consensual</em> sex, it depends on the state the OP is in. In Florida, 16 and 23 is legal. <br /><br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />Fck Florida...that isn't right..no grown man or woman in their right mind should be messing with anyone under the age of 18 years...<br /></td></tr></table> <br /><br />Legal in a lot of places. 16 and 23 is legal in the UK.<br /><br />I haven't read all the responses but OP please confide in an adult you trust as what happened to you isn't right at all.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? :  No means NO!!!!! ]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=58488">BeautyAddiction</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;01&nbsp;2013 at 12:06pm<br /><br /><font size="6" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">No means NO!!!!! <div></div></font>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : You ladies on this thread are...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=88534">DarkestBeauty</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;31&nbsp;2012 at 11:08am<br /><br /><p>You ladies on this thread are amazing great advice but it looks like she's not taking it. But trust and believe the right person will find this and help stop one of these sick men from hurting another woman.</p>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : I agree; the fact that you are...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;31&nbsp;2012 at 1:19am<br /><br />I agree; the fact that you are talking to him to a minimum proves that he wasn't exactly a boyfriend, just some guy you were casually seeing. He is probably always on the lookout for young girls. Not all girls are strong and some start using heavy drugs or contemplating suicide due to rape&nbsp;<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" />]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : I am not trying to be funny at...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=81649">BoutThatLife</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;31&nbsp;2012 at 1:11am<br /><br />I am not trying to be funny at all, i'm very serious: this guy is a predator.rapists do not just rape one girl and that's it.it's like a compulsion for them and they do it whenever they get an opportunity.you weren't the first girl and you won't be the last.someone like him should be killed<br /><br />what are his habits? What is he involved in? Is he the type of person who can go missing and wouldn't be missed? Is he the"pillar of the community"type or a bum type who people wouldn't really sympathize for if something were to happen to him?<br /><br />]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : Hopefully you&amp;#039;ll feel stronger...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;30&nbsp;2012 at 2:45am<br /><br />Hopefully you'll feel stronger in a while and will be able to make good decisions.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : thanks for all the responses everyone....]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=37626">Princess09</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;30&nbsp;2012 at 2:06am<br /><br /><p style="margin: 0px; line-height: normal; font-family: Verdana; ">thanks for all the responses everyone. again life "SEEMS" so much better when the situation is ignored.&nbsp;</p><p style="margin: 0px; line-height: normal; font-family: Verdana; min-height: 15px; "><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; line-height: normal; font-family: Verdana; ">@sexyandfamous: i have kept talking to him to minimum. he seems to not know what happened though.&nbsp;<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0" alt="C&#111;nfused" title="C&#111;nfused" />&nbsp;i don't plan on telling anyone because i'm not sure i'm still so numb to it i don't see it as much as a big deal.&nbsp;</p><p style="margin: 0px; line-height: normal; font-family: Verdana; min-height: 15px; "><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; line-height: normal; font-family: Verdana; ">i just want 6-7 months to pass so it'll be less severe (i hope)&nbsp;</p>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : Sorry but only &amp;#034;stop seeing...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;20&nbsp;2012 at 10:46am<br /><br />Sorry but only "stop seeing him" isn't enough. He's probably a predator who goes after young girls.<br>She hasn't told the board if she still sees him at all but I wonder if he tried again after the first time.<br>He will do it again and she should call the police BUT I'm not in her shoes and most likely she feels ashamed, guilty plus her parents will know.<br><br>Pricess09, if the reason why you don't report him is because of your parents finding out, you could wait until you are 18 and then report him. That way the police won't get your parents involved and since only 2 years will have passed he can still be arrested.<br><br>Check the laws for your state though.<br>]]>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 10:46:55 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : please leave this man alone.....but...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=14349">goodm3</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;20&nbsp;2012 at 10:23am<br /><br />please leave this man alone.....<div><br></div><div><br></div><div>but take this as a learning lesson. if your faith is that you wait until marriage, only date men who also share (and are serious about) those same things....</div>]]>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 10:23:06 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : The saddest part is that OP isn&amp;#039;t...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;19&nbsp;2012 at 7:50pm<br /><br />The saddest part is that OP isn't the only one who was raped and feels numb...tons of girls out in this world felt like that and were betrayed by someone they thought loved them.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? :   Sorry this has happen to OP....]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=28473">Jr1127</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;19&nbsp;2012 at 7:36pm<br /><br />Sorry this has happen to OP. You have been raped and I think you need to talk with someone rather it's someone on your campus or someone in your church, but you do need talk with someone.&nbsp; ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? :   this same thing happened to...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=46249">atexaschick</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;19&nbsp;2012 at 4:59pm<br /><br />this same thing happened to me also OP this year. If you need someone to talk to PM me, I also am still going through this and the numbness that you are feeling and the making excuses are some of the things I did and still do to this day.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? : wait, he didn&amp;#039;t even care...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 11:26pm<br /><br />wait, he didn't even care to know what's your heritage?<br>honey, I just reread your first post and it made me sick. He just used you. You may have see him as your boyfriend but he saw you as sex.<br>You should really reconsider going to the police.<br>He will do it again to someone else....and not every girl can be strong after they are raped.<br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=37626">Princess09</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 10:04pm<br /><br />honestly i feel like it didn't happen to me :/ the more i think about it the more i'm like...it was a dream or something. he didn't know i was brazilian, just thought i was black and white i guess...until i told him but i feel brazilians can be wayy more strict than they appear on t.v and stuff&nbsp;<div><br></div><div>thanks for the private message, it's been a while since i've spoken in portguese i needed a little bit of translating help&nbsp;<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley9.gif" border="0" alt="Embarrassed" title="Embarrassed" /></div>]]>
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   <pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2012 22:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 9:42pm<br /><br />I sent you a private message :)<br><br>And you should have ended with him a long time ago. Brazilian girls are seen as sex goddesses, and he probably just wanted to be able to say that he screw one. <br><br>It wasn't your fault. Losing your virginity doesn't make you dirty.<br><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by sexyandfamous - Nov&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 9:44pm</span>]]>
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   <pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2012 21:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=37626">Princess09</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 9:30pm<br /><br />smh sorry i've been m.i.a lately it honestly is nice ignoring it. coming back to this post makes me cry all over again. one thing i realized was that my virginity sadly meant life to me. when i lost it, i didn't know what to do. i felt used and dirty. i felt/feel like no man will ever want me. the weirdest thing is i would always say how a girl is dumb as hell if she gets naked into bed with a guy. i always jokingly said she deserves to get raped. this was because i was watching an "after-school special" where my exact situation happened. i still feel i had some fault &nbsp;in it though.<div><br></div><div>the worst part is he doesn't understand how much it meant to me. he's american, i'm from a strict roman-catholic brazilian family. i feel he sees sex as an activity you do when couples are together. i see sex as a whole separate concept. luckily i'm busy completing college applications i hardly have time to think about it. i'm going to end it, not sure when though.&nbsp;</div><div><br></div><div>i'm not sure why i do this...but i always tend to forget the bad things about everything. for him, i think he's a great person then i remember the cold memories and I'm paralyzed for a few days. i instantly forget about it until it comes up again. this happens with classes. i could probably fail a class but remember all the great things about it. it's like i never learn from my mistakes.&nbsp;</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div>anyways, thanks for your replies. honestly,at this point i'm okay with being a used/dirty person in a sexual sense, i'm just ready to get over it and move on. hopefully meet someone who won't be too harsh on my horrible decisions.&nbsp;</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=52190">305bgirl</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 8:12pm<br /><br />No means no end of f*cking story. He forced himself in you+you squirmed to try to get away so that he couldn't do it+you said no= rape<div><br></div><div>Don't blame yourself at all in this situation. You were the victim here. Report him and steer clear of him. You deserve respect. You are not just some object for a dude to obtain a nut from.&nbsp;</div>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[*Graphic Detail and lengthy* Rape or no? :   Midna wrote:YOU WERE RAPED....]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=2346">Faithfully2002</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;18&nbsp;2012 at 4:30pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Midna" alt="Originally posted by Midna" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Midna wrote:</strong><br /><br />YOU WERE RAPED.<br /><br /></td></tr></table> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Nov&nbsp;18&nbsp;2012 at 3:32pm<br /><br />I hope you'll read this...it was rape and the fact that you feel numb is because he robbed you of a special moment that feels AMAZING when done right. It wasn't done right because he didn't care about you.<br><br><b>Are you still with him?</b>&nbsp; End it.<br><b>Did you report to the police? </b>Please do so. He'll rape you again next time he has "urges". A man who is a man will wait. My ex waited a freaking month to have sex with me and I wasn't even a virgin anymore (we were 20). <br><br>Please let us know how you're doing.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=21144">alynxx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;27&nbsp;2012 at 10:03am<br /><br />So sorry this happened to you but that is rape. You poor thing...]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50976">Bunnyahh</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;26&nbsp;2012 at 9:26am<br /><br />all the ladies in this thread <img src="http://forum2.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0" alt="Hug" title="Hug" />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=61282">beebeexx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 11:41pm<br /><br />my first time was similar OP and  so so sorry you had to go through that.<br />I don't want to repeat everything that's already been said but I do want to add, the only people who think that in this type of situation you "should" have acted a certain way, have never ever been in this situation. <br /><br />do not feel like the fact that you did not leave after he was first forceful with you makes you at all responsible. <br />do not feel like you put yourself in a "dangerous" situation. you didn't. HE should have not put himself in the position to commit a rape. he knew your boundaries. he chose to cross them.<br />getting into bed with him did not automatically signal that you were okay with sex.<br /><br />there is no way he didn't know you were in pain or uncomfortable or not wanting it to happen when you cried and said no repeatedly. he put his own desire above your own well being.<br /><br />this isn't the most cohesive comment I apologize, but I hope you take something from this and from the rest if the comments posted.<br /><br />my pm box is open if you wanna talk. <br /><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by beebeexx - Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 11:42pm</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=78067">ShadyLady</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 8:44pm<br /><br />OP, I am so sorry this happened to you. Please reach out and speak to someone about this because keeping busy and bottling it up is not going to be a healthy avenue in the long run.<br /><br />Your boyfriend is a rapist. You said no and he forced himself on you. That is not okay or acceptable.<br /><br />Even if you find it hard to see him as a rapist (which he is), at least admit to yourself that you should not be with someone who blatantly violates your personal decision that you felt strongly about.<br /><br />You're young and I know what its like to not wanna listen and live life for yourself, but please know that if you continue to deal with this man, you will be setting a horrible precedent. He will continue to think its okay to do whatever he wants to you, despite your wishes and with no regard for your feelings.<br /><br />Again, I pray you find the strength to get through this ordeal. Please seek help and stay away from this man.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=68991">AffirmativeBunny</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 8:33pm<br /><br />Reading your story was so weird for me because I felt like I was reading something I'd written. Eerie...<DIV>Same thing happened to me, I didn't know whether I could call it rape or not but truth of the matter is that I WAS raped.</DIV><DIV>I REALLY hope you get away from this guy. He doesn't respect you.</DIV>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=68991">AffirmativeBunny</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 8:31pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Alex Urameshi" alt="Originally posted by Alex Urameshi" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Alex Urameshi wrote:</strong><br /><br />Honestly I feel like he did take advantage of you, and I hope that you are not still with him.<DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV>the fact that you clearly said no and to stop and he pinned you and entered you ANYWAY is wrong.</DIV><DIV>I'm sorry that your first time happened this way.</DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV>I myself was sexually assaulted and if you ever need anyone to talk/vent to, please feel free to pm me.</DIV></td></tr></table> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50976">Bunnyahh</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 12:19pm<br /><br />pm me his address &amp;I can see to his death by the end of the month <img src="http://forum2.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley22.gif" border="0" alt="Stern Smile" title="Stern Smile" />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=31008">Jess</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 5:36am<br /><br />I think this is rape. &nbsp;You told him no and he kept going. &nbsp;I believe the sex hurts if you are not comfortable and that pain...I believe is your body wanting it to stop.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=87292">Prazol60</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 4:42am<br /><br />Please please tell somebody that you trust what happened. If you can say it with words then write it down in the letter and give it to them. Heck you can just copy and paste your post and print it out. You should not be going through this alone. You need real support from people you really know and love you.&nbsp;]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=87000">Ashleyano</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 349978<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Oct&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 12:42am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Lady ICE" alt="Originally posted by Lady ICE" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Lady ICE wrote:</strong><br /><br /><font color="#6600FF">im pissed off cause here you are being raped and you're gonna act like this is what normal guys do. like its the thing to do. like come on, in 2012 we should all know better.mothers need to teach their daughters better cause this right here...oh its my fault i messed...aint gon' fly. you need to tell someone. cut him off. and perhaps get some counseling. <br><br>seriously...read your own story again...he undressed you, pinned you down, you were the one crying in pain screaming stop...doesnt that piss you off?&nbsp;<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0" alt="Angry" title="Angry" /> see im pissed again lol.</font></td></tr></table><div id="isChromeWebToolbarDiv" style="display:n&#111;ne"></div><div>honestly this is how i felt the whole time reading the op<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley18.gif" border="0" alt="Ouch" title="Ouch" /></div>]]>
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