Black Hair Media Forum : Excuse the mess...

Black Hair Media Forum : Excuse the mess... http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Sat, 25 May 2013 14:27:19 +0000 Wed, 21 Nov 2012 00:56:36 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=351091 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : ImThatDiva wrote:Yes, UGH it...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938491.html#9938491 Author: ShadyLady
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 12:56am

ImThatDiva wrote:

Yes, UGH it makes me itch!!! That's why I always tell people I'm coming over in advanced so you can have time to get your home together before I arrive. There's no need for me to feel like I should be wearing a hazmat suit to enter you're home.
I went to someone's house once and I swear, had I needed to utilize their facilities, I would've rather went outside and went in the bushes as I feel that would've been more sanitary. Pinch

Judge all y'all want, but I have done that.

My ex shared a bathroom with another dude and they were both disgusting. I remember one time there was hair all over the toilet seat and I asked his roommate what it was. That nicca casually told me he had just trimmed his pubes.

I always made him come to my place and used the bathroom before I stopped by over there.

One day I really had to go and this fool sitting there picking out DVDs to take to my house. I'll be damned if my coochie was gon fall off using that nasty ass bathroom.

I went right outside with my baby wipes, came in, washed my hands and went on with my life.

Judge all you want lol.
]]> Wed, 21 Nov 2012 00:56:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938491.html#9938491 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Princess_S wrote: Organic...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938412.html#9938412 Author: Organic
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 12:29am

Princess_S wrote:

Organic wrote:

LOL @ panties on the radiator. In true African/West Indian fashion. Be sure to check the coil behind the fridge next time. You are almost certain to find some under garments drying there as well LOL

Nah son!

I do handwash my panties in the shower but you will only find one hanging in there drying at a time.

My mother still hangs her panty on the doorknob to her bedroom. I'm like, why don't you just use the dryer? LOL

]]> Wed, 21 Nov 2012 00:29:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938412.html#9938412 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Ladybird0724 wrote:when...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938322.html#9938322 Author: rickysrose
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:56pm

Ladybird0724 wrote:

when I go to places like that, I start to get itchy. I make excuses and leave. I just can't...

the worst place was my husband's uncle's house. I had never been there but thought his house would be suspect b/c he smelled. I ended up having to go over there to visit b/c he was really sick. We walk in and I am assaulted with the smell of all kinds of piss: human, cat and dog. Clothes everywhere, dirty drawers, plates w/ molding food on the floor

I tried to give this dude the benefit of the doubt b/c he was sick and stuff and his wife was busy or whatever, I really did. but then I saw his daughter just pee on herself b/c she didn't want to go to the bathroom and miss part of her show...nevermind that she could pause TV Ermm

She was 8 at the time. Apparently that's a regular thing there.

*rickysrose does sign of the cross*

This is a CPS matter, imo.

Edited by rickysrose - Nov 20 2012 at 11:58pm]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 23:56:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938322.html#9938322 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Two words: Bathroom and kitchen....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938316.html#9938316 Author: ThatGurlD
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:53pm

Two words: Bathroom and kitchen. I don't care what someone's house looks like honestly. But if your bathroom and kitchen are nasty, I'm not staying. I'm not eating and when I gotta go to the bathroom, I'm leaving abruptly. ]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 23:53:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938316.html#9938316 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938252.html#9938252 Author: ImThatDiva
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:23pm

**Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

You know what I hate?

When you tell someone you're coming over, they say they cleaned up because you were coming over, and their house still looks like this Cry

There are people who have homes that look like they belong on hoarders.

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 23:23:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938252.html#9938252 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : ImThatDiva wrote:Yes, UGH...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938248.html#9938248 Author: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:20pm

You know what I hate?

When you tell someone you're coming over, they say they cleaned up because you were coming over, and their house still looks like this Cry

Edited by **Sk!TtLeS B** - Nov 20 2012 at 11:22pm]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 23:20:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938248.html#9938248 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Yes, UGH it makes me itch!!! That's...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938241.html#9938241 Author: ImThatDiva
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:16pm

Yes, UGH it makes me itch!!! That's why I always tell people I'm coming over in advanced so you can have time to get your home together before I arrive. There's no need for me to feel like I should be wearing a hazmat suit to enter you're home.
I went to someone's house once and I swear, had I needed to utilize their facilities, I would've rather went outside and went in the bushes as I feel that would've been more sanitary. Pinch

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 23:16:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938241.html#9938241 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : I dont care about messy, as in...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938212.html#9938212 Author: BoutThatLife
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:05pm

I dont care about messy, as in you have clutter. Whatever thats your biz

FILTH AND SQUALOR is something else. Man o man I was friends with a girl in high school who's house I will never forget. First, I would never have guessed she was living like that. Hair and nails stayed done, she stayed dressed nicely, she always looked clean and she didnt smell. She was a super girlie girl so it shocked the shyt out of me to go to ol girls house and see it like that.

As soon as the door opened, I put one foot in the door and smelt a horrible funk. it was probably the strongest and worst thing I ever smelled in my life. I literally almost threw up, like I had to swallow my own vomit and take a step back. I aint wanna hurt her feelings so I pretended to take a phone call. When I finally mustered the intestinal fortitude to walk in the house, it got worse from there.

Puppy sh*t was embedded into the carpet Dead

Clothes and towels were all over the floor Dead

Roaches having a fcking party in broad daylight in the middle of the living room Dead

Strange species of bugs I have never seen before called her home a habitat Dead

and clutter was everywhere, you had to step over shyt to get around. And after I left I think some bedbugs or fleas were attacking me. it was sooo horrible!

All those grown ass people in the house and nobody think to pick up a vaccuum, mop and bleach? What made it so bad was her family was just chillin and introducing themselves to me like they wasnt living in a toxic waste dump.

She's a nice girl but I look at her funny after that. Bish had the nerve to be flexing designer clothes but living in filth.
]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 23:05:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9938212.html#9938212 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Organic wrote:LOL @ panties...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937594.html#9937594 Author: Princess_S
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 6:42pm

Nah son!

I do handwash my panties in the shower but you will only find one hanging in there drying at a time.

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 18:42:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937594.html#9937594 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : ms_wonderland wrote:Why does...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937591.html#9937591 Author: petiteone29
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 6:41pm

ms_wonderland wrote:

Why does this topic only have 1 star? Someone must be hella dirty.

right!]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 18:41:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937591.html#9937591 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Even on my worst day, the only...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937590.html#9937590 Author: Princess_S
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 6:40pm

Even on my worst day, the only part of my house that you will find unkept is maybe my closet and thats only after a work week when u looking for things and getting dressed and leaving out the door. But even by 12 on a Sat. everything is back to order in my closet. You will never be able to tell the actual difference between when my house is "dirty" from when its clean. If you keep up your home daily this should be an issue.]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 18:40:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937590.html#9937590 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : LOL @ panties on the radiator....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937576.html#9937576 Author: Organic
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 6:36pm

LOL @ panties on the radiator. In true African/West Indian fashion. Be sure to check the coil behind the fridge next time. You are almost certain to find some under garments drying there as well LOL

.]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 18:36:03 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937576.html#9937576 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : afrokock wrote:i cant stand...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937569.html#9937569 Author: petiteone29
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 6:34pm

afrokock wrote:

i cant stand unkepmt homes,

clutter clutters my mind, i cant think when theres a mess

nor can i relax

i want to be able to walk in kick my shoes off at the door, put my bag down and put my feet up and be fed grapes, in a clean house

the state of a persons house tells you a lot about them

i remember walking into this one young lady's house once, pure boner killer

i also hate seeing panties and stuff on the radiator

this! my husband thinks its crazy but i literally cannot relax with clutter around me. i cant think with clutter. i love walking into a clean home, its soo relaxing.

Edited by petiteone29 - Nov 20 2012 at 6:34pm]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 18:34:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937569.html#9937569 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Tooken from the Pure LOLs...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937370.html#9937370 Author: Nisha
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:25pm

Tooken from the Pure LOLs thread:

(CLC has been thanked)

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 16:25:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937370.html#9937370 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : chinadoll77 wrote:I've...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937369.html#9937369 Author: bg
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:24pm

chinadoll77 wrote:

I've been in some pretty bad ones..My top 5

5..One didn't have any running water
4. February,staying over after a night of clubbing,no heat..
3. No where to sit,zero pieces of furniture
2.10 dogs......
And my number 1 worse house visit ever
Couple inviting me and s/o over for dinner,while setting the table they realize that they needed another wine glass.Wife runs upstairs to retrieve the glass,I casually
make a joke about reading a good book with wine.She says "No,they use it to collect the husband's semen,and she drinks it........We left,didn't feel the need to
even fake an excuse.

why can't she just drink it from the tap LOL

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 16:24:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937369.html#9937369 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : But to answer the OP, I had a...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937360.html#9937360 Author: Organic
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:19pm

But to answer the OP, I had a friend in high school who had a filthy house. She lived alone and her sink was always full of moldy dishes and just downright nasty. My other friend and I bought cleaning supplies and cleaned up her entire house for her one day after school LOL

. Two weeks later it was the same way again...]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 16:19:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937360.html#9937360 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : ...so this explains the comments.Whenever...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937355.html#9937355 Author: Organic
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:18pm

...so this explains the comments.

Whenever someone comes to my house (service technicians or landlord), they always make comments on how clean our place is. I would get offensive because I'm thinking,

1. What, black people can't have clean houses? Ermm

2. Why shouldn't my house be clean? I live here... Confused

Now I realize that I shouldn't be so quick to offend because apparently. dirty/nasty homes are common. I don't understand this.

I don't even go to the movie theatre because I don't like to sit in dirty seats. I carry a seat cushion with me on planes because I don't like to sit on public seats.

This entire thread needs some raid roach bombs, Lysol, and prayer.
]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 16:18:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937355.html#9937355 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Bunnyahh wrote: Ladybird0724...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937346.html#9937346 Author: Ladybird0724
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:14pm

Bunnyahh wrote:

Ladybird0724 wrote:

Midna wrote:

No, I did not just read an able-bodies child at the age of 8 intentionally pissed on herself to keep watching TV.

I wouldn't touch a DAMN THING in that house!

she's 10 now and still does it...in fact, last week she did it at school.

come to think of it, all the kids do that in that family. i know the 6yr old does it, but they blame his autism (which has nothing to do w/ it Confused

), the 18yr old, and the 21yr old do it also. the 18yr old does it nightly and always smells like piss. How he got a gf is beyond me...

idk WHY parents dont train their kids btw 1-3 yrs old!! I knew a guy whose family ( 2 generations) peed themselves into their teens. what in the entire fucc??

they're trained, they just don't get up to go. I asked my husband about it last night and he said the girls' father (hubby's uncle) still does it as well....and this man is at least 45. Dead

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 16:14:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937346.html#9937346 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Years ago I went to a guy's...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937329.html#9937329 Author: blaquefoxx
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:02pm

Years ago I went to a guy's house (I kinda had a crush on him, whatev) and his place was so
Smelled like weed, crap all over the floor, dirty dishes, and THIS NICCA HAD A DEAD TURTLE IN THE TANK. HE SAID HE GETS TOO PREOCCUPIED TO MOVE IT (been dead for awhile) AND ITS NOT LIKE IT SMELLS...YET.

Last summer I went to this braiding spot to get my niece's hair braided and the place was horrid. One of the braiders son came out butt ass nekkid...he looked about 2 or 3yrs. The other braiders were commenting on how good his circumcised peen looked and the mother bragged about going to a white doctor to get it done
Then little man just squatted and started pissing on the floor. I told my niece to put her hat back on them nicca naps so we can roll out smh.

Edited by blaquefoxx - Nov 20 2012 at 4:04pm]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 16:02:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937329.html#9937329 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : oh my @ China's post. Makes...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937298.html#9937298 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 3:43pm

oh my @ China's post. Makes me wonder how many how many do that but don't tell their guests.

*packs my own glass in my trunk bag for Thanksgiving dinner and all future dinner parties we attend* LOL

Edited by PurpleHaze - Nov 20 2012 at 3:44pm]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 15:43:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9937298.html#9937298 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Why does this topic only have...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936243.html#9936243 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 5:04am

Why does this topic only have 1 star? Someone must be hella dirty.]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 05:04:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936243.html#9936243 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : afrokock wrote:wow, were they...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936232.html#9936232 Author: chinadoll77
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:47am

afrokock wrote:

wow, were they serious or joking?

chinadoll you live a very colourfull life

They were very serious,even went into a long list of benefits....Needless to say hubby,and I only had to exchange glances before we stood up,and exited the house without a single word being spoken.......

I am not a prude,some would say that I'm a little freaky,but I do not believe that anyone has the right to drag other people into their freaky play....I did not want to eat,drink,or relax on anything in that house....Hubby still had that stuck look that most slower thinkers have when the bell starts to ring slowly.....

And, yes Afro I have been in some strange,fun,and crazy enivorments in my short lifetime......

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:47:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936232.html#9936232 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : wow, were they serious or joking?...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936224.html#9936224 Author: afrokock
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:29am

wow, were they serious or joking?

chinadoll you live a very colourfull life

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:29:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936224.html#9936224 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : @,I drove to the house and hand...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936219.html#9936219 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:17am

LOL

@,I drove to the house and hand delivered my 'we can't make it response'.

Edited by Lady ICE - Nov 20 2012 at 4:23am]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:17:44 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936219.html#9936219 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : I've been to a house that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936218.html#9936218 Author: Prazol60
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:15am

I've been to a house that smelled like piss. My nose was burning the whole damn time I was in the house. Carpet was worn to the ground and trash everywhere. I didn't want to sit down but after standing for a while I had to sit. It was one of those busted brown leather dinning room chairs. Then I was offered some blue berries that had a ring of yellow water (?) around the dish. The women went downstairs to get my book. While she was out the room I saw a roach crawl across the counter to the blueberries. When she couldn't find the book I was so happy(who knows what might try to hitch a ride!) and just left.
--------------------------------------------

My uncle used to buy homes and fix them up for rent. A house became free right next to my grandmother so my mom wanted to move into it. My uncle and her went into the house once he got it to see what needed to be fixed. A LOT! It appears this was a crackhouse since I found crackpipes in the back of some left over furniture. The bath tube was pitch black. It would need to be be totally replaced. In the basement was dog sh*t and two dead squirrels.

I've also been in an active dope house (classmates parents, didn't know what it was) but that was surprisingly clean. Other than the 10 locks on the doors and a wood bar to keep the police out.

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:15:59 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936218.html#9936218 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : Yup,and the really messed up thing...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936217.html#9936217 Author: chinadoll77
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:15am

Yup,and the really messed up thing is that they always throw dinner parties,and get togethers.We normally have to decline,but I told hubby that we would go to that one.She recently sent us an invite for a holiday dinner,I drove to the house and hand delivered my 'we can't make it response'.....

]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:15:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936217.html#9936217 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : ^^^^chinadoll...omg.. Omg..that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936213.html#9936213 Author: Harmonii
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:07am

^^^^chinadoll...omg.. Omg..that is so
Disgusting..omg. I'm speechless ]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:07:38 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936213.html#9936213 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : I've been in some pretty...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936210.html#9936210 Author: chinadoll77
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:01am

I've been in some pretty bad ones..My top 5

5..One didn't have any running water
4. February,staying over after a night of clubbing,no heat..
3. No where to sit,zero pieces of furniture
2.10 dogs......
And my number 1 worse house visit ever
Couple inviting me and s/o over for dinner,while setting the table they realize that they needed another wine glass.Wife runs upstairs to retrieve the glass,I casually
make a joke about reading a good book with wine.She says "No,they use it to collect the husband's semen,and she drinks it........We left,didn't feel the need to
even fake an excuse.

Edited by chinadoll77 - Nov 20 2012 at 4:11am]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:01:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936210.html#9936210 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : i cant stand unkepmt homes, clutter...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936198.html#9936198 Author: afrokock
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 3:38am

i cant stand unkepmt homes,

clutter clutters my mind, i cant think when theres a mess

nor can i relax

i want to be able to walk in kick my shoes off at the door, put my bag down and put my feet up and be fed grapes, in a clean house

the state of a persons house tells you a lot about them

i remember walking into this one young lady's house once, pure boner killer

i also hate seeing panties and stuff on the radiator

Edited by afrokock - Nov 20 2012 at 4:28am]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2012 03:38:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9936198.html#9936198 <![CDATA[Excuse the mess... : nitabug wrote:kids peeing themselves...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/excuse-the-mess_topic351091_post9935683.html#9935683 Author: laceyfront
Subject: 351091
Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 8:40pm

nitabug wrote:

kids peeing themselves at those ages...that's a sign of some severe dysfunction at home.

My cuz was peeing the bed at that age, come to find out she was getting verbal and physically abused by her stepmom when her dad was gone

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