Black Hair Media Forum : Do exes always come back? http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Tue, 18 Jun 2013 00:13:04 +0000 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 12:25:48 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=352351 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : yup, they always do ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10011084.html#10011084 Author: swweet*suga
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:25pm

yup, they always do]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 12:25:48 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10011084.html#10011084 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : I have an ex who is trying...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10011067.html#10011067 Author: Princess_S
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:21pm

I have an ex who is trying to ruin my new thang...whyyyy me?
 
He's bitter! LOLLOLLOLLOLLOL


Edited by Princess_S - Dec 20 2012 at 12:21pm]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 12:21:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10011067.html#10011067 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Positive K wrote: BBpants...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10011032.html#10011032 Author: BBpants
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:11pm

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Yes lol

My last ex is tryin to get on my nice side now. He already sent my christmas gift in the mail lol


what he get u?


Damn you noseyyyyyy LOL
]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 12:11:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10011032.html#10011032 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : ThatGurlD wrote:I would swirl...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010847.html#10010847 Author: BBpants
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 11:09am

Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

I would swirl before I got back with any ex.  True story.



LOL
]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 11:09:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010847.html#10010847 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Yes lol My last ex is tryin to...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010842.html#10010842 Author: BBpants
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 11:08am

Yes lol

My last ex is tryin to get on my nice side now. He already sent my christmas gift in the mail lol
]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 11:08:00 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010842.html#10010842 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : To answer the OP...No they don&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010097.html#10010097 Author: foxyroy19
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 1:55am

To answer the OP...No they don't always come back.]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 01:55:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010097.html#10010097 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Really though, to op and not proxy-op,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010020.html#10010020 Author: Midna
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:58am

Really though, to op and not proxy-op, don't trip about exes coming back. I know you miss him but in the end, you two broke up for a reason and if you wasted your time getting back together, there is an extremely high chance you will end up breaking up for the same reason you broke up in the first place.

When an ex comes crawling back, it's usually not for the right reasons. It might be for sex, familiarity, or just to still have a hold on you.

Look at how most of us have confirmed that most exes came back but did it for the wrong reasons.

It's always when you're fine and dandy and moving on that an ex suddenly goes:


Fuuuuck outta heeeeeeah
]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 00:58:07 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010020.html#10010020 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : every. single. time. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010001.html#10010001 Author: csungrl09
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Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:46am

every. single. time.]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2012 00:46:08 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10010001.html#10010001 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Miss SDY wrote:With my experiences,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009598.html#10009598 Author: Midna
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:33pm

Originally posted by Miss SDY Miss SDY wrote:

With my experiences, yes.. I've had 3 this year try to come crawling back. I rarely try again.. I go through a lot of emotions getting over them. Once I finally heal, I feel no emotion toward them. By then, they always want to come back..



]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:33:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009598.html#10009598 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Shit is accurate. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009589.html#10009589 Author: Midna
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:30pm

Shit is accurate.


]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:30:53 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009589.html#10009589 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : I would swirl before I got back...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009586.html#10009586 Author: ThatGurlD
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:30pm

I would swirl before I got back with any ex.  True story.]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:30:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009586.html#10009586 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : In my case, yes. -.-But that doesn&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009580.html#10009580 Author: Midna
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:28pm

In my case, yes. -.-

But that doesn't mean you should get back with them. In fact, you should tell them to kick rocks.
]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:28:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009580.html#10009580 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Yes or call to apologize a year...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009553.html#10009553 Author: ScorpioLuv
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:20pm

Yes or call to apologize a year later saying they understood why I broke up with them, thanking me for helping somehow etc]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:20:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009553.html#10009553 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Oh, tell her not to be friends...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009543.html#10009543 Author: EasterBell
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:18pm

Oh, tell her not to be friends with him because it won't be genuine because she is hoping to get back with him.. She is going to be in for another blow if he gets another girlfriend. Cut her loses and put her focus elsewhere.. She doesn't need to be sitting around waiting for him to come back because regardless of what is said in here, all exes do not come back.. She may never get to be on that level with him again.. There really is no need for her asking such a question. It's only building false hope and distracting her from what she really needs to be doing, which is starting the process of moving on.. It's hard to let go of a person that you love, but there is really not much you can do if they don't love you back..  


Edited by EasterBell - Dec 20 2012 at 9:19am]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:18:40 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009543.html#10009543 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : they do, but that doesn&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009523.html#10009523 Author: femmefatale85
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:12pm

they do, but that doesn't mean you should be waiting for them]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:12:34 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009523.html#10009523 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Not mine. only the guys who I&#039;ve...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009518.html#10009518 Author: Derri
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:12pm

Not mine. only the guys who I've talked to but never dated sexclusively.


]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:12:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009518.html#10009518 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : BeatriceBean wrote:With...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009506.html#10009506 Author: EasterBell
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:09pm

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

With the ok of the young lady:

 
He said that she's a wonderful girl and that he cares about her, but he's not in love with her.
 
 
And I agree with you all. He made it clear how he feels, she knows, and anything beyond that is a way to waste/fill time and opening the door for even greater heartbreak. Granted, there are relationships that survive after break-ups, but I wouldn't bank on it.


She need to move on.. Take him for his word and let him be.. If he can tell her that he isn't in love with her, he ,more than likely, never will be.. Can't make some one love you. She need to cut her losses, move on and heal. No more energy should be wasted on him.. At least he was being honest and not proceeding w/ her and hurting her any further..  She will get over it with time.


Edited by EasterBell - Dec 19 2012 at 10:10pm]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 22:09:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009506.html#10009506 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Yes..oh goodness yes. The only...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009073.html#10009073 Author: khivey
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 8:22pm

Yes..oh goodness yes.
The only thing I'd suggest if she wants to get back with him is to just have a friendship with him...don't get back with him and do not become intimate with him. Let him first explain to you why he broke up with you and why he wants you back...let him know ya'll can be friends and watch him to see if he shows you he is serious and isn't about games. I don't know how long the relationship was, but if it wasn't that long it could be that he honestly doesn't love her..but may down the line. In any case..just keep it cordial with him and let it go from there..but if she feels she wouldn't be able to maintain self control and will become physical..then it is best to not entertain him. ]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 20:22:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10009073.html#10009073 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : If they walk let them go. Close...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008914.html#10008914 Author: foxyroy19
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 7:36pm

If they walk let them go.  Close the door and double bolt lock it.]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 19:36:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008914.html#10008914 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : I&#039;ve been on both sides of...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008584.html#10008584 Author: Ds2nice
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 5:15pm

I've been on both sides of the fence.  I had very few boyfriends because each of them i had invested  5+ years of my life.  I married an ex....one time i broke up with him and the next time he broke up with me.  A few years later, we were friends with benefits.  Next- we turned into another bf/gf relationship and then we got married. 
 
It really depends on the situation but from what i read so far, it sounds like the woman should just move on and cut her losses now.
]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 17:15:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008584.html#10008584 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : I&#039;d bet the farm ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008481.html#10008481 Author: jonesable
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 4:05pm

I'd bet the farm]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 16:05:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008481.html#10008481 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : BeatriceBean wrote: With the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008480.html#10008480 Author: Miss SDY
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 4:04pm

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

With the ok of the young lady:

 
He said that she's a wonderful girl and that he cares about her, but he's not in love with her.
 
 
And I agree with you all. He made it clear how he feels, she knows, and anything beyond that is a way to waste/fill time and opening the door for even greater heartbreak. Granted, there are relationships that survive after break-ups, but I wouldn't bank on it.
 
 
Honey, if you are reading this thread, then just move on.. He just told you how he felt.  You cannot make anyone love you. Moving on isn't easy and you will go through emotions but it is better to move on than to stick around trying to make someone love you when they do not. That is just setting yourself up for more hurt and pain than it is really worth. Hug
]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 16:04:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008480.html#10008480 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : mine always comes back with a...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008475.html#10008475 Author: Ashleyano
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 4:00pm

mine always comes back with a new sob story every year]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 16:00:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008475.html#10008475 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : My two most serious ones- not...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008468.html#10008468 Author: Qualified
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 3:58pm

My two most serious ones- not my ex husband ( he and I are still the best of friends) meaning we speak everyday. But my two other serious exes absolutely try. My ex came by when I was down south and kicked it with the family for Thanksgiving. We're still cool- but I kindly let him know we're never revisiting the past. That ni(gg)a aint changed a bit, much as he wants me to believe he has. Exes are exes for a reason.]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 15:58:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10008468.html#10008468 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : When my ex was trying to come...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007854.html#10007854 Author: 313chick
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Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 1:06pm

When my ex was trying to come back in my life again I felt so insulted that I dismissed him so quick. I had to deactivate my fb so he would stop creating fake pages]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 13:06:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007854.html#10007854 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : EPITOME wrote:mine did not.i...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007828.html#10007828 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 1:00pm

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

mine did not.
i told him i could not speak to him for a year
it has now been 5


it's not too late. I have one who still tries.
]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 13:00:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007828.html#10007828 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : EPITOME wrote:mine did not.i...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007811.html#10007811 Author: melikey
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 12:58pm

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

mine did not.
i told him i could not speak to him for a year
it has now been 5


don't speak too soon. my college bf tried after 10 yrs of no contact. ]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 12:58:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007811.html#10007811 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : tatee wrote:this reminds...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007807.html#10007807 Author: Bekah
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 12:57pm

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

this reminds me of something *&%^$#@Eed up i did in my last relationship. when things started get bad between us she said she wanted to end it. since ive always been the one to end things first, i smoothed things over with her so we wouldnt break-up and then broke up with her a few weeks later just to keep my record in tact.


Dead Sounds like something i'd do.
]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 12:57:07 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007807.html#10007807 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : yes but I would never (have never)...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007780.html#10007780 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 12:51pm

yes but I would never (have never) get back with an ex for any good reason.]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 12:51:37 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007780.html#10007780 <![CDATA[Do exes always come back? : Lol ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007760.html#10007760 Author: afrokock
Subject: 352351
Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 12:49pm

Lol]]> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 12:49:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/do-exes-always-come-back_topic352351_post10007760.html#10007760