Black Hair Media Forum : Dating out of your league http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Fri, 24 May 2013 16:35:45 +0000 Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:44:24 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=352576 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : ...Edited by Bored w/Out Me? -...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026074.html#10026074 Author: Bored w/Out Me?
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:44pm

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Edited by Bored w/Out Me? - Dec 26 2012 at 3:48pm]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:44:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026074.html#10026074 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I&#039;ve dated down look...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026056.html#10026056 Author: Rumbera
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:35pm

I've dated down look wise once and never made that mistake again.]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:35:46 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026056.html#10026056 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : laceyfront wrote:Well looks...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026053.html#10026053 Author: Rumbera
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:34pm

Originally posted by laceyfront laceyfront wrote:

Well looks wise there is a such thing as out of your league, Im a strong believer of dating within your own level of attractiveness. His fine ass is gone cheat on your ugly ass. I went below my league twice.....never a fvcking gain! Ugly men get cocky when they have a good looking woman on their arm and it turns my stomach, like nigra don't you realize I did you a favor?
LOL
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:34:26 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026053.html#10026053 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : If you go into any setting, romantic...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026052.html#10026052 Author: BeatriceBean
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:34pm

If you go into any setting, romantic or otherwise, with that mindset then you're already damning it for failure.]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:34:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026052.html#10026052 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : Out of my league is in my league. ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026033.html#10026033 Author: iNFATUATE
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:29pm

Out of my league is in my league.]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:29:13 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10026033.html#10026033 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : Shiiittt....i wish. Well to bereally...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025870.html#10025870 Author: Ds2nice
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 1:27pm

Shiiittt....i wish.  Well to be really honest--  a couple of years ago, i had gained a lot of weight and I have to admit he won when it came down to the looks.  Thankfully i lost a lot of that damn weight....]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 13:27:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025870.html#10025870 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I dated down...in every sense,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025651.html#10025651 Author: fairyQueen092
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:56am

I dated down...in every sense, looks, job, education, lifestyle...


But this negroid was so damn cocky, talkin bout how girls would always stare at him wherever he went. But I knew it was an act because he'd always asked if I really liked him because it was too good to be true and he thought I was better than him.

Never.again.

Edited by fairyQueen092 - Dec 26 2012 at 11:57am]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 11:56:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025651.html#10025651 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : Yep when I dated the chief of...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025639.html#10025639 Author: Guidette
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:47am

Yep when I dated the chief of police for a few years and vet later]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 11:47:35 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025639.html#10025639 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : financially and academically speaking,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025576.html#10025576 Author: leftywefty
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 11:15am

financially and academically speaking, I've always dated guys who were in my league. Never spiritually though, my current SO is at a place in his relationship with God that I haven't reached yet. I really admire him for that. ]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 11:15:35 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025576.html#10025576 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : Well looks wise there is a such...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025536.html#10025536 Author: laceyfront
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 10:55am

Well looks wise there is a such thing as out of your league, Im a strong believer of dating within your own level of attractiveness. His fine ass is gone cheat on your ugly ass. I went below my league twice.....never a fvcking gain! Ugly men get cocky when they have a good looking woman on their arm and it turns my stomach, like nigra don't you realize I did you a favor? ]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 10:55:13 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025536.html#10025536 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : PeacefulOne wrote:I did....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025519.html#10025519 Author: honeyb87
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 10:45am

Originally posted by PeacefulOne PeacefulOne wrote:

I did. But I was young.  Lemme splain:
 
First, this was my first serious relationship.  I was 18. He was 25.  He came from a wealthy family, a famous family.  I was from a poor family, never had "nice things", never really traveled,  and I was "virginal".  I was naive, trusting, not sophisticated; he spoke 3 languages fluently, and was world traveled.  He was a musician, and his parents owned a resturant.  Everything he taught me was new. I didn't know how to dress for the occasion, or what to say to people, cause I was shy had never been taught.  I had never lived on my own either.  So I felt he was out of my league.  He did teach me a lot.  We were together 4 solid years, 5, off and on.  And even today we are still friends, and he told me once, I was the one that got away.  
 
Glad to say that I grew, and learned and changed, and he never made me feel less for not being uppity or conceited.  I think that's what he like about me.
 
Oh boy those were good times. Lol. 


Heart
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 10:45:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025519.html#10025519 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I am too awesome of a woman to...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025517.html#10025517 Author: petiteone29
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 10:44am

I am too awesome of a woman to feel that way. ]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 10:44:50 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025517.html#10025517 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : Sang Froid wrote:When you&#039;re...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025509.html#10025509 Author: PeacefulOne
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 10:40am

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

When you're a woman there's really know such thing as out of your league imo.
Men date down.
 
o rly?  Bey may have sumthin to say bout this. . .
 
but, idk her, so . . .  LOL
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 10:40:00 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025509.html#10025509 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : When you&#039;re a woman there&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025444.html#10025444 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 9:52am

When you're a woman there's really know such thing as out of your league imo.
Men date down.
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 09:52:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025444.html#10025444 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : tbaby123 wrote:the guy im dating...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025439.html#10025439 Author: PeacefulOne
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 9:50am

Originally posted by tbaby123 tbaby123 wrote:

the guy im dating right now, is 'out of my league' financially/family money... physically i don't think he is out of my league, but he is the most fit guy i've ever dated, he runs/works out a lot. he is def smarter than i am since he is in med school.. he is more social than I am.. 

but i am just as awesome in different aspects.. and he adores me, sooo i guess that officially negates him bieng out of my league.. 

S.N: 
can someone be out of your league that's obsessed with you? does that make sense?
 
ABSOLUTELY!  Big smile
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 09:50:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025439.html#10025439 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : the guy im dating right now, is...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025415.html#10025415 Author: tbaby123
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 9:39am

the guy im dating right now, is 'out of my league' financially/family money... physically i don't think he is out of my league, but he is the most fit guy i've ever dated, he runs/works out a lot. he is def smarter than i am since he is in med school.. he is more social than I am.. 

but i am just as awesome in different aspects.. and he adores me, sooo i guess that officially negates him bieng out of my league.. 

S.N: 
can someone be out of your league that's obsessed with you? does that make sense?
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 09:39:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025415.html#10025415 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I did. But I was young. Lemme...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025414.html#10025414 Author: PeacefulOne
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 9:38am

I did. But I was young.  Lemme splain:
 
First, this was my first serious relationship.  I was 18. He was 25.  He came from a wealthy family, a famous family.  I was from a poor family, never had "nice things", never really traveled,  and I was "virginal".  I was naive, trusting, not sophisticated; he spoke 3 languages fluently, and was world traveled.  He was a musician, and his parents owned a resturant.  Everything he taught me was new. I didn't know how to dress for the occasion, or what to say to people, cause I was shy had never been taught.  I had never lived on my own either.  So I felt he was out of my league.  He did teach me a lot.  We were together 4 solid years, 5, off and on.  And even today we are still friends, and he told me once, I was the one that got away.  
 
Glad to say that I grew, and learned and changed, and he never made me feel less for not being uppity or conceited.  I think that's what he like about me.
 
Oh boy those were good times. Lol. 
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 09:38:43 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025414.html#10025414 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : ^Damn right!You forget that cheating...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025161.html#10025161 Author: Midna
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:57am

^Damn right!

You forget that cheating asshole!
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 02:57:42 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025161.html#10025161 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : actuallyi could do better smh ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025155.html#10025155 Author: missunfoolish
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:50am

actually

i could do better smh
]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 02:50:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025155.html#10025155 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : cool thread ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025141.html#10025141 Author: afrokock
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 2:21am

cool thread ]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 02:21:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10025141.html#10025141 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I dated this guy my freshman...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024896.html#10024896 Author: honeyb87
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 9:47pm

I dated this guy my freshman year of college.....8 years older than me, handsome, had a nice car, was in the military, nice body, made a lot of money....and he told me that he thought I was out of his leagueShocked It shocked the hell out of my 'cause I was a nothing but a mere pretty but broke college student Sleepy


Edited by honeyb87 - Dec 25 2012 at 9:47pm]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 21:47:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024896.html#10024896 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : oh ok. another 20 pages. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024885.html#10024885 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 9:40pm

oh ok. another 20 pages.]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 21:40:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024885.html#10024885 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : No such thing as a man dating...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024882.html#10024882 Author: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 9:35pm

No such thing as a man dating out of his league.]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 21:35:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024882.html#10024882 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I&#039;ve done it physically and...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024879.html#10024879 Author: Limalady
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 9:32pm

I've done it physically and financially.]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 21:32:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024879.html#10024879 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : I am the highest league you could...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024869.html#10024869 Author: BoutThatLife
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 9:24pm

I am the highest league you could go]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 21:24:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024869.html#10024869 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : nope never. lol @ bwom ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024740.html#10024740 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 7:52pm

nope never.

lol @ bwom
]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 19:52:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024740.html#10024740 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : my hubby&#039;s body is perfection......mine,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024658.html#10024658 Author: HunnyB
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 6:57pm

my hubby's body is perfection......mine, not so muchCry]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 18:57:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024658.html#10024658 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : hmm, i dont think so. my ex wasnt...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024653.html#10024653 Author: eanaj5
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 6:53pm

hmm, i dont think so. my ex wasnt out of my league but i thought I wouldnt be his type physically...turns out i was exactly his type.

I did briefly date a guy that wasnt in my league. no job, failed a few times in hs, aspiring rapper Ermm no car, etc
]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 18:53:11 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024653.html#10024653 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : @midnaIdk, but I dont think so....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024606.html#10024606 Author: _ConcreteRose_
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 6:16pm

@midna
Idk, but I dont think so. She went, "Awww corey, look what Concrete did to your backpack" while I was sitting right there. He just looked at me, smiled and made a 'tension easing' joke. Never really brought it up again.

He WAS great, I can't lie. A good first bf for an insecure teenager.
]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 18:16:26 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024606.html#10024606 <![CDATA[Dating out of your league : There&#039;s no such thing as...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024500.html#10024500 Author: ImThatDiva
Subject: 352576
Posted: Dec 25 2012 at 5:30pm

There's no such thing as out of my league...I date who I feel I deserve. Unfortunately I've gotten that wrong in the past, however, I've landed an amazing man.]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2012 17:30:40 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/dating-out-of-your-league_topic352576_post10024500.html#10024500