Black Hair Media Forum : Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Wed, 19 Jun 2013 16:26:37 +0000 Thu, 29 Nov 2012 19:23:57 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=351475 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : I could and did before I had their...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957387.html#9957387 Author: callmeDEva
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 7:23pm

I could and did before I had their first grandbaby

Now drama isn't even the word. Glad I live 2 hours away]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 19:23:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957387.html#9957387 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : man i don&#039;t trust that lady...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957070.html#9957070 Author: Ladybird0724
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 5:02pm

man i don't trust that lady in my home. if i had known how bad they could get, I probably would have thought long and hard about marriage. i really understand now how ppl say "you marry the whole family" ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 17:02:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957070.html#9957070 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : Ladybird0724 wrote: carolina...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957066.html#9957066 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:58pm

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

If they were nice cool people, sure.

Among other things, I would appreciate the free reliable babysitting.Approve


my MIL told me last week that she would be watching my son after I went back to work...didn't ask, just told me. and this bish live about an hr away in the exact opposite direction of my job. told me i was selfish when i said no thanks Ermm

i do not want her free reliable babysitting.
Tell her she can drive on over to your house to babysit then.Evil Smile
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Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:56pm

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I'd never marry someone whose parents I don't like. 

That would be tough. I like my inlaws
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Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:55pm

I'd never marry someone whose parents I don't like. ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:55:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957059.html#9957059 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : carolina cutie wrote:If they...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957055.html#9957055 Author: Ladybird0724
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:53pm

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

If they were nice cool people, sure.

Among other things, I would appreciate the free reliable babysitting.Approve


my MIL told me last week that she would be watching my son after I went back to work...didn't ask, just told me. and this bish live about an hr away in the exact opposite direction of my job. told me i was selfish when i said no thanks Ermm

i do not want her free reliable babysitting.
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:53:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957055.html#9957055 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : miana79 wrote: Lady ICE...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957052.html#9957052 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:51pm

Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

my mom in law is moving in soon :)
 
 
Shockedyou will be in my paryersBeer
yeah cause eventually she'll want to cookCry beans and rice everydayCry. LOL she learned years ago not to get my way. besides that i have the only grandbabies in the family. Big smile
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Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:48pm

to answer the original post----Hell Noooooo! they too nosey and are lonely jealous people.]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:48:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957047.html#9957047 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : Lady ICE wrote:my mom in law...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957043.html#9957043 Author: miana79
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:44pm

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

my mom in law is moving in soon :)
 
 
Shockedyou will be in my paryersBeer
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:44:53 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957043.html#9957043 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : Nope. The further the better his...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957034.html#9957034 Author: Sleek
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:41pm

Nope. The further the better his family cray!!! he part cray also but him I can deal with them NO!!! He also wouldn't be near my fam. at least not my dad he says he's to overbearing and likes to challenge him too much, duh!!! you took his baby girl from himLOL]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:41:11 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957034.html#9957034 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : If they were nice cool people,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957016.html#9957016 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:33pm

If they were nice cool people, sure.

Among other things, I would appreciate the free reliable babysitting.Approve
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:33:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957016.html#9957016 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : No can do! We live hours apart...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957009.html#9957009 Author: Butta Cookie
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:30pm

No can do! We live hours apart and that's not enough! ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:30:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957009.html#9957009 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : my mom in law is moving in soon...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957003.html#9957003 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:29pm

my mom in law is moving in soon :)]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:29:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9957003.html#9957003 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : When we got married we moved out...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956999.html#9956999 Author: LovesHim
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 4:28pm

When we got married we moved out of state....... hellll nawwwww ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:28:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956999.html#9956999 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : my mothers side of family bascially...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956780.html#9956780 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:50pm

my mothers side of family bascially stayed in the same area when i was growing up.  i couldn't do shyt if i wanted too.

 
pity...on big love, bill's sister wives had actual seperate houses that only shared a yard...that compound, however, was a different story....
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:50:30 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956780.html#9956780 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : Sang Froid wrote: jonesable...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956753.html#9956753 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:44pm

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

The street I grew up own is all paternal cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents.
My moms whole family is 5 minutes away.

I want my kids to grow up like that.

When family is all around it makes you not act up...cause someone will find out and you will get your ass beat. I can't go anywhere without seeing someone in my family.

i know someone whose family is like this. he lives near his wife's family and i think they're all about 10 minutes max away from each other with some living down the same street. 

one sister moved to GA, the other one moved next door. when the first sister moved, the second sister moved too.  the third sister moved when they moved back to FL. the fourth sister lives with their parents with her husband.
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:44:40 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956753.html#9956753 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : PurpleHaze wrote:I wouldn&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956743.html#9956743 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:43pm

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

I wouldn't mind the same house if it was a large house. Each fam should have their own wing and entrance of course. Their own garage too, maybe. So it would be a family home, not like they are all living together.

like a sister wife?LOL
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Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:37pm

no, especially if the guy is a momma's boy like my current so. i can just imagine Dead]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:37:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956722.html#9956722 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : lmaooooo ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956704.html#9956704 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:30pm

lmaooooo]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:30:26 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956704.html#9956704 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : jonesable wrote:The street...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956703.html#9956703 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:30pm

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

The street I grew up own is all paternal cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents.
My moms whole family is 5 minutes away.

I want my kids to grow up like that.

When family is all around it makes you not act up...cause someone will find out and you will get your ass beat. I can't go anywhere without seeing someone in my family.
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:30:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956703.html#9956703 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : TC, I know my sisters would...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956690.html#9956690 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:25pm

TC, I know my sisters would be coming to our wing all the time to borrow my husband to fix something, with their flashlight-holding men LOL

Edited by PurpleHaze - Nov 29 2012 at 2:26pm]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:25:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956690.html#9956690 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : ^^TC I remembered you like that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956685.html#9956685 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:24pm

^^TC I remembered you like that set up too. ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:24:43 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956685.html#9956685 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : PurpleHaze wrote:I wouldn&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956680.html#9956680 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:23pm

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

I wouldn't mind the same house if it was a large house. Each fam should have their own wing and entrance of course. Their own garage too, maybe. So it would be a family home, not like they are all living together.
 
 
i would LOVE LOVE LOVE this!!!!HeartClap
]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:23:35 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956680.html#9956680 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : The street I grew up own is all...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956659.html#9956659 Author: jonesable
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:17pm

The street I grew up own is all paternal cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents.
My moms whole family is 5 minutes away.

I want my kids to grow up like that. ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:17:03 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956659.html#9956659 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : Family is babysitters.....them...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956628.html#9956628 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:07pm

Family is babysitters.....them nigguhs need to be close by.]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:07:31 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956628.html#9956628 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : ^^you serving drinks? lol ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956626.html#9956626 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:06pm

^^you serving drinks? lol]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:06:30 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956626.html#9956626 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : PurpleHaze wrote: modelbusiness82...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956624.html#9956624 Author: modelbusiness82
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:06pm

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

It's great in theory...but there are some moochers in my dh's family. So....I want them to be a number of toll payments away from me lol!

One of his aunts moved upstate (we live in NYC) about 10 min from my in-laws. And to cut down on the cost of HER electric and gas bills etc., she started staying over 2-3x a week at his parent's house (my dh's father is her brother). It pissed my MIL off, and for good reason. So, um yeah...I like the idea of a good $10 toll deterring moochy relatives from wanting to visit!


lol the flip side of having the inlaws a long distance drive away, is that when they do visit they have to spend the night. LOLLOL


Haha...it's a 45 min drive! So, they're not so far that they can't go home haha. And since our apartment could fit 3x in their house with room to spare, I KNOW they're not staying the night lol!
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Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:05pm

When I was growing up that's how it was Purp. My dad's siblings had rooms in the out house and when they moved out they all built homes next to each other.

]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:05:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956622.html#9956622 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : I wouldn&#039;t mind the same...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956617.html#9956617 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 2:01pm

I wouldn't mind the same house if it was a large house. Each fam should have their own wing and entrance of course. Their own garage too, maybe. So it would be a family home, not like they are all living together.]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 14:01:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956617.html#9956617 <![CDATA[Could You/Do You Live Near Your InLaws? : we live about 15 min from both...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956609.html#9956609 Author: petiteone29
Subject: 351475
Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 1:58pm

we live about 15 min from both sets of parents. its no big deal. they dont pop up unexpected or anything. we rotate hanging at each set of parents house. i definitely wouldnt want to live in the same house though.]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2012 13:58:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/could-you-do-you-live-near-your-inlaws_topic351475_post9956609.html#9956609