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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? : No,I feel sorry for people who...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=18750">chinadoll77</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;22&nbsp;2013 at 5:43am<br /><br />No,I feel sorry for people who want kids and can't have them..I felt sorry for my husband his 1 st child died within the first 6 weeks...I feel bad because of the emptiness many of those parents feel..]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? :   goodm3 wrote:  EPITOME wrote:i...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=33126">afrokock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;22&nbsp;2013 at 5:35am<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by goodm3" alt="Originally posted by goodm3" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>goodm3 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by EPITOME" alt="Originally posted by EPITOME" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>EPITOME wrote:</strong><br /><br />i know plenty of women like this..they seem content<div>some may not be</div><div><strong>it's unfortunate that men never have to make these decisions</strong></div></td></tr></table><br /><div><br /></div><div>VERY true...</div></td></tr></table> that's bullsh*t. <br /><br />]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? : When I&amp;#039;m single, I want to...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=18126">smaison</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;22&nbsp;2013 at 12:53am<br /><br />When I'm single, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be in a relationship. But I do know that I want a husband. A family to me was always me and my husband; no kids. Add a jump off once in a while to the equation and I'll be the happiest 50 year old childless woman you ever meet. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=23080">r0ck_starr</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 11:37pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ms_wonderland" alt="Originally posted by ms_wonderland" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ms_wonderland wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy" alt="Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>AmyAmyAmy wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br></td></tr></table> <div></div><div></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>work harder?&nbsp; lmaooo.&nbsp; like how?</div><div>&nbsp;</div></td></tr></table><br><br><b>Some women ain't that attractive</b> <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0" alt="Dead" title="Dead" /> Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you. <br><br><br></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div>This is true<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /></div></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div><br>"unattractive" females are like the main ones with husbands from what I notice.&nbsp;</div></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div>Yeah I see this too. The fat/ugly girls I knew in high school are already married by 23 (typically to fat/ugly guys).&nbsp;</div>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? : Not wanting kids or a life partner...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=67304">jonesable</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 11:08pm<br /><br />Not wanting kids or a life partner is a an atypical choice,<br />It's natural to want kids and and partner.<br /><br />It's ok if you don't its not like its illegal but the innanet starting to act like wanting those things is a result of brain washing...it's not ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=67304">jonesable</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 11:04pm<br /><br />Damn a dormant vagina?<br />For the rest of life.<br /><br />No thanks<br /><br />]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? : When people want something outside...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=55614">HunnyB</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 10:50pm<br /><br /><b><font color="#cc00cc">When people want something outside of the cookie cutter life, it's wrong...</font></b><div id="LCS_C4CFC0DE_134F_4466_B2A2_FF7C59A8BFAD_communicati&#111;nDiv"></div><div><br></div><div><b><font color="#cc00cc">Go to college---&gt; start your career-----&gt;find a man---&gt;marry him---&gt; white picket fence----&gt; kids---&gt; happily ever after<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley13.gif" border="0" alt="Disapprove" title="Disapprove" /></font></b></div><div><b><font color="#cc00cc"><br></font></b></div><div><b><font color="#cc00cc">dormant vaginas are not a crime...&#093;</font></b></div>]]>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2013 22:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=38191">nitabug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 8:18pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" alt="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Random Thoughts wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by nitabug" alt="Originally posted by nitabug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>nitabug wrote:</strong><br /><br />I have a family. I don't need children to have one of those...it came with the "human" package.<br><br>If all my family died, I'd still be content with friends, and if they died...welp...<b>there's bhm</b><br></td></tr></table><br><br>We'll all be dead too. <br></td></tr></table><br><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" /> Well, who wants to bring children into a world like that?<br>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? :    Positive K wrote:   nitabug...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=38191">nitabug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 8:16pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by nitabug" alt="Originally posted by nitabug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>nitabug wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br></td></tr></table><br>I&nbsp; have to work harder to attain a LTR with someone who is at terms with me never wanting to have children with them. Especially men.<br><br>Men talk alot of sh*t, but most of the ones I've met do want kids and they don't like the idea or the ego crushing of you wanting them, but not their offspring.<br></td></tr></table><br><br>You are very rare. Men meet a woman that doesn't want kids and that is shocking. But I'm sure there are some out there looking for a woman like you. Yall should have a dating site exclusively for people who don't want kids. I'm sure the older u get tho, you'll meet men that have had kids and don't want anymore. <b>But would u want a man with kids already?</b><br></td></tr></table>Not at this point, no. The ones I meet lie and I always catch them in lies. I am starting to meet the childless men and women...who childless, but not by choice.<br>&amp; they are annoying.<br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=58599">Flowing-Ice</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 8:13pm<br /><br />i kind of do feel bad for them.&nbsp;]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? : i&amp;#039;m just saying that Honey...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=45345">ms_wonderland</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 8:09pm<br /><br /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" />&nbsp;i'm just saying that Honey Boo Boo's mama n em, get men to marry them all the time...i just don't see looks being a huge obstacle as long as you don't set the bar too high.]]>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2013 20:09:18 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? :    goodm3 wrote: Wendy Williams...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=9001">purpulicious01</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 8:07pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by goodm3" alt="Originally posted by goodm3" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>goodm3 wrote:</strong><br /><br />Wendy Williams views on women and career and family..&nbsp;<div><br></div><div><iframe width="560" height="350" src="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/RJs47XRc2cM"  frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br><div><br></div><div>BHM ladies: Would you be ok with at <b>50yo</b> having a great career but with no family? (Not necessarily having kids but a&nbsp;companion)</div></div><div><br></div><div>Do you know any women like this in your personal lives?</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div>Editted based off of comments:&nbsp;</div><div><span style=": rgb251, 251, 253;">Its really not about "having kids"..its moreso about having someone to share these accomplishments with.&nbsp;</span><div style=": rgb251, 251, 253;"><br></div><div style=": rgb251, 251, 253;">Could you live the single life forever?&nbsp;</div></div><div><br></div></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div><br><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Personally, no, I wouldn't want to go through life without a partner or children, and my family takes precedent over my career. I think it is human nature to desire&nbsp;companionship</span><span style="line-height: 1.4;">&nbsp;in life.&nbsp;</span></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><br></span></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">I don't know of any woman that has made a conscious decision to stay single, but I would be interested in sitting down and having a good conversation with such women to understand their perspective, motivation and rationale of their decisions.&nbsp;</span><div><br></div><div><br></div></div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=45345">ms_wonderland</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:12pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy" alt="Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>AmyAmyAmy wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br></td></tr></table> <div></div><div></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>work harder?&nbsp; lmaooo.&nbsp; like how?</div><div>&nbsp;</div></td></tr></table><br><br><b>Some women ain't that attractive</b> <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0" alt="Dead" title="Dead" /> Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you. <br><br><br></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div>This is true<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /></div></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div><br>"unattractive" females are like the main ones with husbands from what I notice.&nbsp;</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=79655">AmyAmyAmy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:11pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br></td></tr></table> <div></div><div></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>work harder?&nbsp; lmaooo.&nbsp; like how?</div><div>&nbsp;</div></td></tr></table><br><br>Some women ain't that attractive <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0" alt="Dead" title="Dead" /> Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you. <br><br><br></td></tr></table> <div></div><div></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>what?&nbsp; there are plenty of<b> unattractive fat box men</b> roaming around out in the free world too...i don't see how this is a problem...<img src="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" height="17" width="17" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" /></div></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley18.gif" border="0" alt="Ouch" title="Ouch" /><br></div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=13167">ThoughtCouture</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:06pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<BR></td></tr></table> <DIV></DIV><DIV></DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV>work harder?&nbsp; lmaooo.&nbsp; like how?</DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV></td></tr></table><BR><BR>Some women ain't that attractive <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0" alt="Dead" title="Dead" /> Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you. <BR><BR><BR></td></tr></table> <DIV></DIV><DIV></DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV>what?&nbsp; there are plenty of unattractive fat box men roaming around out in the free world too...i don't see how this is a problem...<img src="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" height="17" width="17" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" /></DIV>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=24888">cvzx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:03pm<br /><br /> <br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy" alt="Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>AmyAmyAmy wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br /></td></tr></table> <br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div> </div><br /><div>work harder?  lmaooo.  like how?</div><br /><div> </div></td></tr></table><br /><br /><strong>Some women ain't that attractive</strong> <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0" alt="Dead" title="Dead" /> Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you. <br /><br /><br /></td></tr></table><br /><div><br /></div><div>This is true<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /></div></td></tr></table> <br /><br /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" align="middle" /> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=3198">PurpleHaze</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:01pm<br /><br /><p><br></p><p><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" alt="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Random Thoughts wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by nitabug" alt="Originally posted by nitabug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>nitabug wrote:</strong><br /><br />I have a family. I don't need children to have one of those...it came with the "human" package.<br></p><br>If all my family died, I'd still be content with friends, and if they died...welp...<b>there's bhm</b><br></td></tr></table><br><br>We'll all be dead too. <br><p></td></tr></table></p><p>&nbsp;well I've said before that I'll be posting still from the great beyond&nbsp;<img src="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" /><br>(I'm never leaving)</p><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by PurpleHaze - Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:03pm</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=79655">AmyAmyAmy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 5:01pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" alt="Originally posted by ThoughtCouture" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ThoughtCouture wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br></td></tr></table> <div></div><div></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>work harder?&nbsp; lmaooo.&nbsp; like how?</div><div>&nbsp;</div></td></tr></table><br><br><b>Some women ain't that attractive</b> <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0" alt="Dead" title="Dead" /> Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you. <br><br><br></td></tr></table><div><br></div><div>This is true<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /></div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=24888">cvzx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:57pm<br /><br /><br /> <br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" alt="Originally posted by Random Thoughts" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Random Thoughts wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by nitabug" alt="Originally posted by nitabug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>nitabug wrote:</strong><br /><br />I have a family. I don't need children to have one of those...it came with the "human" package.<br /><br />If all my family died, I'd still be content with friends, and if they died...welp...<strong>there's bhm</strong><br /><br /><br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />We'll all be dead too. <br /></td></tr></table> <br /><br />I've  been thinking marriage and kids don't always equate  company and joy. There is old people who never see their kids bc their kids to busy with their own lives. As for men... sometimes ur better without and sometimes it's  like their not really their.<br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=24888">cvzx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:54pm<br /><br />I don't see nothing  wrong with that...u live ur life to the fullest capacity. <br /><br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50790">Random Thoughts</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:53pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by nitabug" alt="Originally posted by nitabug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>nitabug wrote:</strong><br /><br />I have a family. I don't need children to have one of those...it came with the "human" package.<br><br>If all my family died, I'd still be content with friends, and if they died...welp...<b>there's bhm</b><br></td></tr></table><br><br>We'll all be dead too. <br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=13576">rickysrose</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:51pm<br /><br /><div><br></div>sang, use your phone as a hot spot .. for granny&nbsp;<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /><div><br></div><div><br></div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=24888">cvzx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:51pm<br /><br />I don't see nothing  wrong with that...u live ur life to the fullest capacity. <br /><br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=38191">nitabug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:42pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<br></td></tr></table><br>I&nbsp; have to work harder to attain a LTR with someone who is at terms with me never wanting to have children with them. Especially men.<br><br>Men talk alot of sh*t, but most of the ones I've met do want kids and they don't like the idea or the ego crushing of you wanting them, but not their offspring.<br><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by nitabug - Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:43pm</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=45345">ms_wonderland</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:41pm<br /><br />it is not hard to find a husband...it's hard to find a good one, im sure.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=13167">ThoughtCouture</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:39pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Sang Froid" alt="Originally posted by Sang Froid" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Sang Froid wrote:</strong><br /><br />My aunts have been trading places spending the night with my grandma since my grandpa died. I should go over there, but she doesn't have wifi or cable.&nbsp;</td></tr></table> <DIV></DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV><img src="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley18.gif" height="17" width="17" border="0" alt="Ouch" title="Ouch" /></DIV>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=13167">ThoughtCouture</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:38pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br />Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.<BR></td></tr></table> <DIV></DIV><DIV></DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV>work harder?&nbsp; lmaooo.&nbsp; like how?</DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=3198">PurpleHaze</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:36pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by rickysrose" alt="Originally posted by rickysrose" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>rickysrose wrote:</strong><br /><br /><b>I wasn't talking about you purple ... you know I didn't read the thread&nbsp;<img src="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley9.gif" border="0" alt="Embarrassed" title="Embarrassed" />&nbsp;&nbsp;</b><div><br></div><div>I can only bob and weave through threads, 'm working to afford the assisted living facility &nbsp;<img src="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" />&nbsp; j/k</div><div><br></div><div>totally generic ... not speaking to anyone in particular&nbsp;</div><div><br></div><div>people who have kids want a husband, people who have a husband want kids, people who have both want free time (single), people who are single want an SO, etc, etc</div><div><br></div><div>people can and should be happy in any which way the cookie crumbles</div><div><br></div><div><br></div></td></tr></table><br><br>I know.. or at least I didn't think you were <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" alt="LOL" title="LOL" /><br>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? : My aunts have been trading places...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=65000">Sang Froid</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:35pm<br /><br />My aunts have been trading places spending the night with my grandma since my grandpa died. I should go over there, but she doesn't have wifi or cable.&nbsp;]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[BHM: What You Say? :     BeatriceBean wrote:  PurpleHaze...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=3198">PurpleHaze</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 357071<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:34pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by BeatriceBean" alt="Originally posted by BeatriceBean" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>BeatriceBean wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by PurpleHaze" alt="Originally posted by PurpleHaze" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>PurpleHaze wrote:</strong><br /><br />BB, I want them fighting over who's going to visit me next week. lol</td></tr></table><div>&nbsp;</div><div>You want them fighting over who's driving...they all better be there at the same damn time every week lol</div></td></tr></table><br><br>yeah.<br>'no you can't go this week, you went last week. It's my turn!'<br><br>everybody just show up<br><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by PurpleHaze - Mar&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 4:34pm</span>]]>
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