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i agree, there are things that can and can't be controlled.
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


I'm done with this thread

I hate how you can't have a discussion without people catching feelings...

Nobody said racism didn't exist...especially not me.
I said can racism still be B-L-A-M-E-D in 2014 for those who can't get ahead...when theres so many success stories that say otherwise...

y'all catch feelings every single time...almost on cue lol..in these type of threads and start reading stuff that is never there...

I'm done.



you don't understand what racism or sexism is

I'm guessing your community may be to blame but you are old enough to do your own research now
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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

BHM needs to retire the phrase "catching feelings". the discussion is civil modeless

CB et al I hinted at SL's post from page one! HMPF



Indeed.  when the feels get caught ad hominem attacks are usually somewhere in the post.  there's a difference between catching feelings and having a discussion where both sides are passionate about their stance.
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a racist can fall in love and produce children with someone that is the race they despise

saying some blacks are successful so racism isn't as big of an issue really doesn't make sense

I honestly don't think people that say this understand how complex isms are
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

them crackas smell like wet dogs!

lmao… where did this come from..?

i think i was repeating what someone said.
that sentence seems unlike me… 
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I think I'm all about this control what you can doctrine.

Racism is a thing. And yet, at the end of the day, we still have to live our lives. Maybe everything, like racism can't be overcome, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try. And in that case, does it really matter whether someone doesn't believe racism is the issue? Idk.


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I agree that there are a lot of things directly in the community that can be controlled better by us.  But I also realize that because of the power structure set up it's not that easy to do on a large scale.  I feel a lot of the problems that hold back our community are a direct result of slavery, racism and most recently integration:

violence/crime
drugs
internalized hatred and in fighting
etc.

I also hope that people that realize that if black people all together start to shake off the effects of racism and try to go somewhere, it will not be well received.  And there is precedent to show that.

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I am a little surprised by MD… 

and i dont think anyone caught feelings. Its normal to get a little flustered with something like racism when there are threads and examples of it almost everyday. 

All ive seen is productive discussion that made me learn a few things. 
I dont like when people feel a way about something, have no issue with stating it, but refuse to expound on the topic. 
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it matters if it affects how they vote

that is the main reason why I care

socially, I probably just wouldn't deal with you
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MD is pretty conservative in her views about everything
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