as a kid I use to ask my mom for stuff... little things... and she would always say ... "No"
like always , right. ..
So I just stopped asking cause I knew what the answer would be.
So I've pretty much built my life around the idea that I will never have to ask anybody for anything.
I dont want any gifts for xmas... or bday or anyday. ... I even talk myself out of insignificant stuff.
I can say that it has ruined (not insanely) some of my relationships also. Like when I was with an x of mind I never asked her for anything... and she would ask me things like
"what do you want from me?" And I'm like ... " I dont know.. nothing really"
I can imagine how that would be frustrating to deal with
All because of my super modest upbringing