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HaitianDiva64 
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 Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 9:48pm |
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aww the wait is the worst. i'm way too shy to be handing out my number. Wish i could
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HeyBeautiful18
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Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 4:10pm |
I'm shy too. This is probably the first time I've ever approached a guy like that I gave in and texted him. he said "hey :)" So simple but yet I'm so excited. I'm such a dork 
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Posted: Nov 10 2013 at 6:02am |
NEVER MIND!! So a few texts in, something told me to ask him if he was even single. I assumed he was but I just wanted to make sure He goes "I'm not gonna lie.. I do have a friend" I'm like umm...girlfriend?  he goes "ill be honest with you. Yes" I responded "alright well thanks for letting me know" and that was the end of it I'm definitely upset I got my hopes up like that. I really did like him. I thought it was someone I would be able to date and get to know. And turns out the fcker had a girl. I'm not surprised. I feel cursed when it comes to guys. The ones that I can picture myself with I can't have. And then the ones that I'm not interested in always want me.
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HaitianDiva64
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Posted: Nov 10 2013 at 10:16pm |
awwwwwww man, see thats the thing he prob was honest cause he thought you would be down to be his side thing. Also maybe he really liked you to and didn't want to go there with you.. idk Well you insoired me to be a little bolder with my flirting
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Posted: Nov 10 2013 at 10:20pm |
i keep meeting guys with kids, I really don't understand this. I'm not even looking for anything serious right now just trying to get back on the horse. I want a guy that has something ofhis own so I can have like a date night/chill buddy. All these guys with kids can't do that, can't get up and do whatever. I'm tired of this. If igure I should just chill alone untill the end of the holidays anyway
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Posted: Nov 11 2013 at 9:55am |
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Idk how to feel about this one... My trust is so fvcked up but he seems sincere.... I'll just give it time I suppose.
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Posted: Nov 11 2013 at 4:37pm |
I wish I had asked if he had kids. I have a feeling "friend" means a baby momma that you occasionally sleep with I was upset over it at the time today I'm good. Not like I was rejected. The mutual feeling was obviously there.. I just met him at the wrong time apparently  On to the next one!
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I am going through a difficult time. Dealing with depression at 31 weeks pregnant. I told my doctor and she's helping. I try to put on a stone face and people say I'm so strong, but when I get home, I break down and cry most nights. my Effed up relationship did this to me. Dealing with someone who is not ready to be a dad and wont alter his life to be one and someone who won't admit to being abusive. I am the only one buying our daughter stuff. I have talked about it here before. We don't live together anymore and I am finally moving away temporarily to my dads house on the other side of the state this weekend. My life will be changing a lot. I'm going on early maternity leave. There has been a lot of bad luck going on as well. It's just so hard to stay strong. I feel sorry for my baby a lot. as for the baby's dad, he tells me lies and says he loves me still and the baby, says we are his only family, but has made no changes. My dad hates him and said if he was in Jamaica, he would get beaten up and shamed and have to hide, my dad told me to tell him to go to hell and that he was not on the same level as him. my dads never talked like that before, he's a straight laced guy.
Even though I suffer, it's my baby I'm worried about. I'm scared for her. I don't know how to stay strong. at 31 weeks I'm extremely emotional.
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Posted: Nov 26 2013 at 2:45pm |
A reminder to the ladies...I don't like Beyonce but you should be treated way better: 
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Posted: Nov 27 2013 at 9:09pm |
 indiecat wrote:
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Are you speaking with a therapist? If not, I highly suggest you do so that you can begin working on this before the baby is born. I know it can be hard to take that first step, but it will be worth it in the end.
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