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Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

I feel lonely. And when I start feeling like this, I start to hit up my exes. I'm trying to keep myself busy with my schoolwork so I don't fall through with it. I love the single life, but right now...fuuuuuuukk!


hm makes me wonder if thats why my ex hit me up like 2 days ago..
dont do it to us (the exes)

lol.

i feel for the trap. ahhhhh

I didn't even think about it the other way around Dead alright, I won't. I got thisssss! I'm going to set myself a goal. One month of not hitting up an ex or responding to theirs.


Smh @ myself for having to set a goal Ouch


its def not a good feeling.
old feelings, too much drama.
i need to set a goal on NOT replying to his lol Cry

i have to ask tho. are you the one that cared less in the relationship(s)?
they always be the one hitting you up tbh

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Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

I feel lonely. And when I start feeling like this, I start to hit up my exes. I'm trying to keep myself busy with my schoolwork so I don't fall through with it. I love the single life, but right now...fuuuuuuukk!


hm makes me wonder if thats why my ex hit me up like 2 days ago..
dont do it to us (the exes)

lol.

i feel for the trap. ahhhhh

I didn't even think about it the other way around Dead alright, I won't. I got thisssss! I'm going to set myself a goal. One month of not hitting up an ex or responding to theirs.


Smh @ myself for having to set a goal Ouch


its def not a good feeling.
old feelings, too much drama.
i need to set a goal on NOT replying to his lol Cry

i have to ask tho. are you the one that cared less in the relationship(s)?
they always be the one hitting you up tbh

Let Mr Number(the app) be your next bestfriend ladies. That has help me to ignore many ppl( exes and other ppl i wish not to speak to or hear from)
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Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

I feel lonely. And when I start feeling like this, I start to hit up my exes. I'm trying to keep myself busy with my schoolwork so I don't fall through with it. I love the single life, but right now...fuuuuuuukk!


hm makes me wonder if thats why my ex hit me up like 2 days ago..
dont do it to us (the exes)

lol.

i feel for the trap. ahhhhh

I didn't even think about it the other way around Dead alright, I won't. I got thisssss! I'm going to set myself a goal. One month of not hitting up an ex or responding to theirs.


Smh @ myself for having to set a goal Ouch


its def not a good feeling.
old feelings, too much drama.
i need to set a goal on NOT replying to his lol Cry

i have to ask tho. are you the one that cared less in the relationship(s)?
they always be the one hitting you up tbh


Well for one of them, it was equal. We both cared. Still do, but we try to act like we don't cause we're stubborn with each other. BUT, for the other one, at the beginning, I was the one that cared the most. Doing the most ALWAYS! But for the end of the relationship, I switched to caring the least. Now he's the one that cares the most. He hits me up every week making up something to just talk to me. I think its because he's noticing that the roles are switched now, and that bugs him.

So maybe your theory is right Shocked
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Maybe I'll try Mr Number. I feel like if I get it though, I'm being overly dramatic with this. I think I can do this on my own Approve
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Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

I feel lonely. And when I start feeling like this, I start to hit up my exes. I'm trying to keep myself busy with my schoolwork so I don't fall through with it. I love the single life, but right now...fuuuuuuukk!


hm makes me wonder if thats why my ex hit me up like 2 days ago..
dont do it to us (the exes)

lol.

i feel for the trap. ahhhhh

I didn't even think about it the other way around Dead alright, I won't. I got thisssss! I'm going to set myself a goal. One month of not hitting up an ex or responding to theirs.


Smh @ myself for having to set a goal Ouch


its def not a good feeling.
old feelings, too much drama.
i need to set a goal on NOT replying to his lol Cry

i have to ask tho. are you the one that cared less in the relationship(s)?
they always be the one hitting you up tbh


Well for one of them, it was equal. We both cared. Still do, but we try to act like we don't cause we're stubborn with each other. BUT, for the other one, at the beginning, I was the one that cared the most. Doing the most ALWAYS! But for the end of the relationship, I switched to caring the least. Now he's the one that cares the most. He hits me up every week making up something to just talk to me. I think its because he's noticing that the roles are switched now, and that bugs him.

So maybe your theory is right Shocked



that sounds like me & my ex. we're stubborn. and i cared alot at first too but when he lied and sh-t that was the last straw, i broke up with him a month ago and now he's hittin me up all of a sudden but now that i replied i think it gave him the leverage that.. i care again and NOW he's ghost on me again. i hate the feeling of falling for this sh-t.

so now he feels he's in control, and he is.. cause hes got me waiting for a txt. this cant be life. i swear if he hits me up again im ignoring tf out of it. Cry



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I've been in that situation so I know how you feel. Yes yes yes please ignore him! Use all your willpower to not text him or reply to his message. That way you don't give him that smug power he thinks he has over you.
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There's this boy in my writing class. His looks are w/e. But his personality is on point. Confident and smart. That's so sexy to me. I wish more guys would pick up a book and read so I could have an intelligent conversation with them.
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he didnt hit me up the whole day until like few hrs ago at 7pm, sending me that waving emoji like he didnt get ghost on me yesterday.

keep saying im not replying so i wont :/

what type of books do you want them to read? lol
i actually know a guy thats so intellect but his girl such an airhead :/

and then i read sometimes, but nobody really knows that side of me, except my ex.
its funny, hes like the perfect mix between assh-le/and intelligent

hes smart but hes dumb, if that makes sense

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Keep saying that to yourself. Once you tell your mind you don't care enough times, it will really feel like you don't...making it easier.

I don't care what books to be honest. Just anything where he we can hold a conversation of opinions on a subject matter. Something cohesive. Not fake. You know? LIke I hate forced, flirtatious conversations. Don't get me wrong, I loveeeee to flirt, but if that's all we're doing, FUK THAT. The dude is not on my level. 

The dude I really like right now is the same way! Such an A-hole, but he's an intelligent. He speaks in high, common sense manner
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i like the way you think :) i want that too.

those guys are the best to me, cause girls always want the assh-le for some reason, but then you get the smarts with it

and their sense of humor usually great too lol
*sigh* thats why i loved him





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