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In my 20.5 years of life i have had only 1 guy ask for my number
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Really fairyqueen??
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Yea

Apparently i'm unapproachable, but i feel silly smiling for no reason..
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Hug@FQ
This is basically my "dating" history.  I think I see a pattern.  I've only interacted with 3 dudes since the 8th grade. DAMN!


Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

I never had BF **cough**  I could never get out of the flirtationship. Next time I will LOL

8th grade:  My guy friend saw me from afar and was like "DAMN! Who is that?"  His friend Tyrone was like "WTF, that's Jess"  My friend said "Damn, she's hot!"  I was wearing these tight shorts...they were long though, but since I'm tall I had extra leg showage.  He asked me out and called me.  He asked me how long would he have to wait to have sex.  I said over a year. The next day my friend called me and said he got a new gf.  I wasn't surprised or sad.

Sophomore year:  A new guy transferred to my school.  I didn't find him attractive initially.  Then I did...so I found him on MySpace and added him.  I gave him my AIM and we would talk like everyday for HOURS on AIM. SMDH.  This went on for 5 months.  I gave him a carnation on Valentine's Day. He brought this girl named Christine to the classroom the day before. He changed his relationship status to "In A Relationship".  I was thrown.  Now that I am older, I am not surprised.  I was his backup girl. LOL
He didn't get me a carnation and gave his carnation to Christine.  I was jilted. He wanted to stay friends, but I cut him off and burned the bridge.  He's not with Christine anymore.

Sophomore Year of College:
I liked a guy, but I was too forward.  He wasn't into me.  I was delusional and thought he was just shy.  He wasn't and he got with a girl he actually liked.

Junior Year of College:
This guy would talk to me all the time before class. I thought he was just being nice.  While the semester is winding up, he asks me to be a part of his study group.  Well the day comes and the study group is just us.  We talked, but there wasn't any chemistry.  He said we should hangout over the summer.  I texted him the day school ended and he responded late and didn't reply to my other text. I didn't hear from him in like 4 days.  So I texted him again -____-  and he asked me out the same day...but I just took out my weave so I said I couldn't. 

Didn't hear from him in a week (You would think that I would learn the signs)  I asked him how was he and he asked me out to the beach.  The day we were suppose to go to the beach, he said he got called into work and rescheduled for the weekend.  I asked him which day and he didn't respond.  

He texted me later in the week and asked me hows my summer going.  I told him if this beach thing doesn't happen, it's okay.  He gave a response that didn't make sense and he never set a date.  I never went to the beach and I stopped texting him.  I deleted his number.  >.<
Again I was the backup girl. This shyt is getting real old.

Senior Year:
To be continued...in September

Lessons learned:
Never approach a guy.  Don't initiate texts. - My biggest mistake.
If a guy is into you, he'll make every effort to be around you or talk to you.
Take everything at face value and don't make excuses for him.
Shy guys=BS  I don't believe it.


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^ damn

I made that mistake of trying too hard with a guy in high school (my jr prom date, i asked him to go ) he gave in but when he fiqured out i wasnt a quick/easy fuk, he stopped answering my texts.

The one guy who did ask for my number ended being my 1st and only bf. Then he broke up with me after 4 months of talking, 6 weeks of being official.

Why does everyone else make talking to guys so easy? I really hope things change this year. I'm so tired of being "inexperienced" i feel like guys can sense it.

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Same^^They must be picking up on these "inexperienced" pheromones. 
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As one of the few single girls I know, I'm tired of overacting my happiness for other people's relationship successes so that they don't think I'm jealous or unhappy.
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I need to stop liking guys just because they are nice to me.
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Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

Yea

Apparently i'm unapproachable, but i feel silly smiling for no reason..
what makes you unapproachable?? And sometimes smiling is welcoming.Unless its overly done and someone can take it that u missed your meds. Fairy Queen...you  are young...work on you.And men can pick up on low self esteem. Lift your self up...once you are happy with yourself..someone will definetly be glad to be around you.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 22 2013 at 2:14am
I'm starting to distance myself from my ex. I can't form other relationship if he stays in the picture. Pinch

I know he doesn't like me like that. I'm starting to get it. It hurts, but I'm getting over it.
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