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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote indiecat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 29 2013 at 10:59pm
communication problems
broken trust
blatant lies
lack of respect

this week has been bad because i told him i wanted to move out. he never thinks i'm serious about it, but i actually packed my sh*t, i even told the landlord i might be moving out. before when i'd say it, it was an empty threat. now that it seems real, his behavior has changed. if i move out, i don't have anywhere else to go pretty much, but i'd rather leave than put up with his garbage. i've asked him to work on our problems and he does not. he prefers to act like everyday is a new day and like even yesterday is the past. i am not going to forget the sh*t hes done, i am truly hurt by it. he needs to stop doing sh*t to hurt me and maybe thats when i'll call it the past. 

i can't even build 1% trust without him phucking it up fast. i'll give it one more shot, thats all i can give, then i'm just going to prepare myself to leave. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote HeyBeautiful18 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 9:51am
The last guy I use to talk to has been hitting me up lately

He actually called me this morning and we talked for a little bit.

He has way too much going on in his life and brain to even think about being in a relationship with ANYONE but it was really nice to talk to him like old times. He's actually a really cool down to earth guy..he just lets his insecurities and emotions get the best of him

He said he wanted to remain friends but i dont know. That is someone I use to "date/fucck" so that would be really disrespectful to the guy Im seeing now.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote indiecat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 10:45pm
i'm working on trusting him and trying not to worry about things that i cannot change.

i can't change him. he can only change himself and i can change myself.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote beebeexx Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 9:16am
I'm pretty sure I know what's holding me back in the dating/relationship area. I wish it didn't have to be an issue... but it is. sigh. but it's something I can work on and change and I guess it's time to start doing just that.
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I'm newly single and I'm feeling good about it! This fool gets mad at me because I'm expressing how I feel about something and he didn't like it so he ignored all of my calls/texts since sunday afternoon. Aint nobody got time for that. That's high school sh!t, be an adult and talk to me. Fucc you, you selfish baby. I asked him straight up if you're going to keep ignoring me I'm going to assume we're done. Oh well, you can't say I didn't try. Eventually he'll contact me and if he does, I'm gonna tell him about himself and chuck him the deuces officially. I'm not going to let you disrespect me and ignore me just so you can contact me whenever you feel like it. Oh no, this relationship takes two and I'm done being treated like I'm 12 with you ignoring me like that. A grown ass 34 year old man, catching tantrums. Negro please! I know how I should be treated and what I deserve and you sir are NOT it. Have several seats \_ \_ \_

Anyway, I'm focusing on finishing school, moving and starting my career. The guys will come eventually and when the time is right, so it's time for me to be selfish and focus on me. I know there will be times I will reminisce and be a little sad, but oh well, I'll be a-ok. *hits the dougie*

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Im so tired of bring single, i wish i wasnt so shy and a loner
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My god, this dude is fine, fit, and smart. What's the catch?! 
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Its impossible finding good guys my age in my neck of the woods
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One guy clearly wants me.
One is shy or just dumb.
One is making his move.
The other is sitting on the fence, as far as possible from me.

I don't want the first, I want the latter.
Damn it.
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I slept with this guy and we'd spoon. jetpack spooning. He'd be in front of me and he'd take my hand and put it over his heart with his hand over mine and we'd fall asleep like that.  It was nice and sweet. Makes me actually want a real relationship.
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