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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote indiecat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2014 at 10:06am
the father of my child has been putting black women down a lot.

When we were together, he did it a lot and said I was "different" because I'm caribbean. we are no longer together and things are in my favor as far as our child. He is mad because of this and his bad talk about black women has increased. Our daughter is black, she is only a quarter white. Her dads mom is white and his dad is black.

I'm worried about how he will treat our daughter. He's already said he hopes her hair doesn't kink up. he has supervised visitation because he's an alcoholic and he's abusive.

He has made it a point to say he prefers Latina women. The ones he has been with have cheated on him, used him for money, one even had a baby by someone else and tried to say he was the dad. I'm the only black woman he has been with. All I did was do the right thing and stop putting up with his behavior. I have protected my daughter as much as possible as well.

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... It's like he's someone else. Confused Broken Heart
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He trickin backwards... dumb ass bitch. 
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He thinks I forgot about Chicago... etc.


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote beebeexx Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 31 2014 at 5:28pm
I have 1 foot in and 1 foot out of this relationship.
I don't think I can love him if I truly love myself.
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Haven't been down here in awhile.
Our relationship has made gigantic leaps forward.
We are talking seriously about marriage and plans and I've caught him researching rings and asked for my ring size recently.

He has been such a force in my life.
I am better with him in all phases.

I am myself totally with him . I feel whole.
I have watched him grow and improve and develop.
I'm proud of him.He recently reached a career milestone and he still isn't stopping.
His ambition is so attractive.
Sometimes I just stare at him.
*Siggghhh those lips those eyes and that bone structure!

He is so affectionate now and I love it.Don't know what clicked for him but I'm glad it did. I've done a lot of changing too.

He is my partna .
We have a meeting of the minds and we help and support each other with our goals. I couldn't imagine anyone else but him.
Wouldn't want anyone else but him.
I wouldn't want to be anywhere he isn't.



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Whew that was good to write down.
Can't wait to see him later.

I need a journal
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote eanaj5 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 26 2015 at 11:28pm
I kind of dont want to be single anymore
July will make 3 years

It was cool at first but im starting to want to spend time with a special someone.
And I'm getting older, I'd like to be married by 27 so I can travel and have fun with my husband before i have kids by 30/32...
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I hate you. Or maybe I just hate THIS.
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