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iNFATUATE
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 10:07am |
Sang Froid wrote:
iNFATUATE wrote:
I honestly believe some of y'all regret being dug up in and have a thing against people who are virgins or claim to be virgins.
If you're a heaux claim it and love it. If you partake in premarital sex claim it and love it. If you're a virgin hide that ish cause they're gonna say you're gay, a suckad*ckathon champion, or a liar.
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I cry myself to sleep every night knowing that I'll never be a virgin again.  Being a virgin was so freeing and full of fun. |
Hit dog?
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 10:27am |
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On how other women react to her stance on sex My sister is a virgin, and I have a couple of friends who are virgins too. Some women have said to me, “Why would anyone want to date you if you haven’t had sex?” I ask them, “Why would anyone want to date someone who has slept with the whole world?” Having sex with a man is not what’s going to set you apart. What’s going to set you apart is what’s in your head. On advice she has for young girls I have talked to young groups of kids at different schools about the keys to success, and one of the secrets I tell the young girls is to preserve themselves and their bodies and not to give them away to someone who doesn’t deserve it. Guys are going to treat you how you allow them to,
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My thoughts. She's a hypocrite.
Having sex with a man is not what’s going to set you apart. What’s going to set you apart is what’s in your head.
If that is the case, then NOT having sex with a man is not what's going to set you apart either...If it's really about whats in your head. Right? She aint gotta lie to kick it though. That how virginal hierarchy is spilled all over her responses.
& that sh*t she is telling young girls... I don't like that either. Especially the part about the guys. People will treat you like sh*t whether you allow them or not. It's up to you to entertain it, but in some circumstances you can't avoid these people. So what then?
I hate half ass messages.
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 10:57am |
1. This hit dog, butt hurt, and have a seat auto response needs to stop. It's corny. 2. You do realize people are questioning her not just because she is a virgin, but ALSO because she said she has no sexual desire at all, even after/during a three year romantic relationship. How can you assume everyone (the "some of y'alls"-because we know that is a safe ass response that allows finger pointing, auto responses, and backtracking) who questioned it is a heaux? It's just like her over exaggeration asserting that if you are not a virgin...you "slept with the whole word." LOL. Like really? Life just works in extremes? I could keep going, but yea. 3. How do you paraphrase someone in the most obvious way, then call them a hit dog when you threw a  dart at them using passive aggressive GPS?
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 10:59am |
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I don't get the part about "not having those desires." Wth? |
I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that uppity isn't a heaux. And another limb and guess that's why sang said she was asexual or a lesbian. I'm jus sayin ETA: so I go a few pages back...and like 3-4 virgins are saying she needs more people. So....um...yea
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people spend too much time equivocating about other people's vagina's
and holyfield's daughter has that air of pomposity that often comes with virgins, because they havent had sex yet..
have sex, dont make other people feel bad for not doing or dont have sex but dont make other people feel bad for doing it
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 11:24am |
most people do things so they are in a better position than others. thats just life. doesn't mean you're advocating someone else feeling bad about what they do, its just one of those indirect responses.
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 1:28pm |
At least she stood up for what she believed in regardless for he motives. Often times our actions do not reflect our beliefs, because of pressure or convenience. Good for her, she does not want sex, so does it have it, if you feel you not ready don't do it. yeah for team #virgin or born again virgins.
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 2:25pm |
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why is this news?
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