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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 1:51pm

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 1:59pm
25 is around the time when I really began to consider the consequences of my actions. That "live fast, die young" mentality began to lose its appeal.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 2:02pm
Originally posted by gabi03 gabi03 wrote:

Yep, that's why I'm glad I waited to go back to college. I'm more focused, I work harder, I have better priorities. I just make better life decisions and it really all started when I turned 25-26. It's part of the reason why I think delaying college is better, I hate dealing with the mentality of fresh out of college 22-23 year olds in the workplace.
 
That I part of me wishes I just would have completed college the first time. But at least now that I am doing this for myself, not my mother and them. I can focus but I go to school online so I don't have to deal with annoyances that come with going to a physical class room.
 
I'm much more of a homebody now though. The comfort of home means a lot and I'm rarely out unless it's required.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 2:58pm
Okay you know how they say (they being niccas that do studies and such) that your brain aint fully developed until you get to be about 25...do y'all fee thats true? Yes

Do y'all have waaaaaay more of your mental faculties than lets say, a 21/22 yr old? Hell yes.

Are yall less ratchet and impulsive? Yes, especially when it came to our binge drinking parties. I look back on some of my other impulsive behavior and wonder 'praise oprah! Da hell was I thinking?'DeadLOL

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 3:03pm
Nah, I was way smarter in high school and college. Now I actually feel like I'm getting dumber.  Confused
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 3:05pm
One day I am overthinking, the next I'm doing something stupid on a whim.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 3:06pm
Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Nah, I was way smarter in high school and college. Now I actually feel like I'm getting dumber.  Confused
it may just be because you are out of school. I felt the same way until I got back into college. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 3:14pm
i feel a sense of clarity that i didn't feel before 25.  i am not as concerned about being judged and i am more quick to make decisions i want to make without pucci-footing.  i guess you can call that more impulsive but i'd rather not use that word...it's just that i'm more in tune with potential consequences so i can make a decision faster without being as concerned.  i have less patience for things that don't make any sense.  
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 3:20pm
Originally posted by Afrocentchic Afrocentchic wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Nah, I was way smarter in high school and college. Now I actually feel like I'm getting dumber.  Confused
it may just be because you are out of school. I felt the same way until I got back into college. 


Yeah, I'm def gonna go back.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 3:28pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i feel a sense of clarity that i didn't feel before 25.  i am not as concerned about being judged and i am more quick to make decisions i want to make without pucci-footing.  i guess you can call that more impulsive but i'd rather not use that word...it's just that i'm more in tune with potential consequences so i can make a decision faster without being as concerned.  i have less patience for things that don't make any sense.  
 
all of the above.
I can't deal with shenan.igans at all.
I have still have somewhat of a hard time make major life decisions or commitments though.
 
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