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They forgot these

#24. Can you watch my kids on NYE?
#25. I know you said it was an adult party but can I bring lil man? He'll probably sleep the whole time anyway

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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

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cool so they're not babies anymoreWink
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Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

Blah, Blah, Blah....misery loves company. 

People like that are just plain jealous of you and your freedom and want your life as messed up as theirs. Not everyone's wants or is cut out to be a parent. It's too much mental, physical & emotional work for 18+ years......

And this statement comes from a woman who had kids. 

ITA.

And they stay trying to trick you with  #17 "You think you don't want children, but once you have them you'll change your mind."

But what about if I don't change my mind when they get here? What now? 

I honestly think that a lot of women regret giving into the pressure to have children when they knew that they felt differently. Its just not acceptable to say so. 

I can say without a shadow of a doubt that my life would not be better if I had children right now.
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lol, they can say whatever the f*ck they want, but in the end, all I have to say back is "zzzzzzzz whenever I want to" LOL
 
#thatswhatniecesandnephewsarefor
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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

honest question: i dont understand the kids overrated burden. why does everyone think that when you have kids your life is over?  sure you have to spend a little extra on things but sheesh...what is it you wanna do that you cant with kids?

i mean i travel. i buy myself gifts. i go out to breakfast/lunch/dinner when i want. i hang with friends. what do you think you're missing if you have them?
I still do everything I want. Last night DH and I went to dinner and a show, saw 7 comedians, laughed our asses off. Next week we are going out of town for some alone time overnight at a posh hotel. The following week, we're taking a family vacation. I've always done alot,with or without kids
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I feel like this is a kid bashing thread.
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There's also nothing more beautiful than coming to a peaceful home after a long day of work.
what's better than that is when u come home and they go "Mommy! & run to throw their little arms around u, put their warm soft little hands on ur face and kiss u, muah" . It's a really warm and loving feeling.
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

But for some their kids bring them peace .
Just depends on the stage you're in.

 
 
noise does not bring me peace if im trying to sleep.LOL
that doesn't even happen if ur breastfeeding. Don't believe the hype. Not all babies are criers
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I hate when you say that you don't want kids and they say, ooh you don't like kids. That makes me angry. I love kids but bringing a life into this world is so important andI can't handle that. I wish more people took it more seriously
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