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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:42pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

I'm curious what kind of harsh insults do childless women give?

i usually see criticism when the child's needs appear to not be priority and/or the mother is being careless

why would someone insult a mother who's handling her business and raising her child properly?



Stuff like I'm glad I don't have kids because they're a burden.
Why do you keep having kids?
I couldn't ruin my body like that.

The carelessness happens in different ways as some speak without truly thinking.

Some people think that even if you are a great mother it doesn't matter because kids are unnecessary.




Oh I see...hmmm honestly, I might think that from time to time but I would never say that to anyone. That is rude.

I really don't care how many kids people have, as long as they are being properly cared for

that's all that matters

It just bothers me to see generations and cycles of neglect and poor parenting from children repeating their parents actions and so on

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:44pm
Omg moody can we start an awesome childfree woman club? I agree 100% with everything you said.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:44pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Lol yes parents don't like when you give them advice especially unsolicited and from ppl who don't have actual experience ( me )
I like to annoy my older sister.
I'm moving to her city for school and she and her husband are trying to have another baby.
I told her we are gonna cloth diaper and breast feed only this baby.

She knows I do it to annoy her but she has warmed to the cloth diapering idea.
Cloth diapers are soooo cute.
I use to get mad when people tried to tell me how to care for my newborn .  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:45pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

The things listed are extreme and are not what normally happens.
I don't believe that childless women are being harassed in the streets for not having kids.

The overwhelmingly majority is harmless social banter and inquires about family.

Yep

oh? despite posters saying they've had these things said to them? still gonna ride this 'harmless social banter' narrative? oh.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:46pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

The things listed are extreme and are not what normally happens.
I don't believe that childless women are being harassed in the streets for not having kids.

The overwhelmingly majority is harmless social banter and inquires about family.

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oh? despite posters saying they've had these things said to them? still gonna ride this 'harmless social banter' narrative? oh.


Yerp
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:47pm
no matter how childless I am or will ever be I will always enjoy seeing well raised and mannered children

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:49pm
weird. i only read that stuff online. never heard it. never say it.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:50pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

I'm curious what kind of harsh insults do childless women give?

i usually see criticism when the child's needs appear to not be priority and/or the mother is being careless

why would someone insult a mother who's handling her business and raising her child properly?



I've said some mean things to parents, but only if they've insulted me first.

Comments like "you're irresponsible" or "you're selfish" or "you may as well have kids, you already have all the stretchmarks anyway" are always met with insults.

I also have no problem calling out sh*tty parents in public. If your child is acting a fool in my space you need to control it. And if you can't, then I'm going to say something.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:57pm
I am glad I don't have kids at this point in my life.(period)

But dealing first hand with friends who have children, it seems as if they don't want you to be happy because you don't have the burden and daily stress of having them, like its wrong to be free!
Dare I say #teamnokids...

Just like you claim to be happy with the high ass daycare expenses, baby daddy issues, and no "me" time, can't I be happy with being able to get up and go wherever and whenever I want? JS...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 07 2013 at 8:58pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

I'm curious what kind of harsh insults do childless women give?

i usually see criticism when the child's needs appear to not be priority and/or the mother is being careless

why would someone insult a mother who's handling her business and raising her child properly?



I've said some mean things to parents, but only if they've insulted me first.

Comments like "you're irresponsible" or "you're selfish" or "you may as well have kids, you already have all the stretchmarks anyway" are always met with insults.

I also have no problem calling out sh*tty parents in public. If your child is acting a fool in my space you need to control it. And if you can't, then I'm going to say something.



you call out parents in public?

strangers?



Edited by ModelessDiva - Nov 07 2013 at 9:04pm
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