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    Posted: May 23 2011 at 9:27pm
Unrealistic, unwise, or OK?

What do you think about May December romances in the real world?

would a man this age take a woman this age seriously or just wanna mess around with her?


I met a man who's probably in his late 30s that I'm interested in. Nothing serious but I got a lil crush on him. I only met him 1 time but I was struck by his easygoing spirit, personality and pretty smile and he was feelin the kid as well. He doesnt know how old I am but I'm sure he can guess just like I can guess his age.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 23 2011 at 9:33pm

OMG you & i are in the same situation...im 21 & my man is 37 . let me just b clear older guys are sooooo much easier to handle . hes a totally sweetheart. & most importantly hes very supported. girl do u & have fun :)

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 23 2011 at 10:39pm
I think you should stick to someone around your age range! When a man in his 30's date a women in her early 20's, it sometimes can lead to a type of relationship where he attempts to mold into what he wants!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 23 2011 at 10:45pm
Originally posted by Belladonna1 Belladonna1 wrote:

I think you should stick to someone around your age range! When a man in his 30's date a women in her early 20's, it sometimes can lead to a type of relationship where he attempts to mold into what he wants!
Not necessarily.
 
If you have that connection and he is a mature well established man, you can make a go of it. Just watch for the signs of him trying to be your "teacher" or "guide you "
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 25 2011 at 1:13pm
I had this same experience. I was 22 and he was 36. We both liked each other, but we honestly didnt have much in common besides.....
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 25 2011 at 1:44pm
Originally posted by Belladonna1 Belladonna1 wrote:

I think you should stick to someone around your age range! When a man in his 30's date a women in her early 20's, it sometimes can lead to a type of relationship where he attempts to mold into what he wants!
 
Yep I hear men in their late 30's say this all the time.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 25 2011 at 9:28pm
It could work; it depends on what you are both looking for in a relationship. I think that alot of older men go for alot younger women because they dont want to settle down yet and they know that a younger girl doesnt want to either. Where a 30 something lady will want more like marriage and kids and maybe he needs a few more years to not be tied down.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 25 2011 at 9:56pm
You'll never know until you try, right? Everyone is different. You two may end up really liking eachother. If he trys to control you or thinks he is smarter/more mature than you................on to the next.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 26 2011 at 12:34am
I'm around your age and my last 2 men were about 30. They can get out of pocket sometimes with the control.  Just set em straight if it happens. If he continues cut him loose. Until then just enjoy one another, he could be the one you never know.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 26 2011 at 12:42am
im in my 20's and if i were not in a relationship already, i would not date a guy in his 20's as well. they just r not as mature and established as older guys.
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