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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

   @neka I don't wanna get older

I'd rather be young and free to do whatever, whenever!!..than old and settled any day

I feel so free and liberated at my age I wouldn't trade this feeling for anything or money in the world

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i don't blame you for that. no one wants a feeling of being trapped or overwhelmed by responsibility or feeling like their life belongs to everyone but themselves. 

however, it doesn't happen all over night. it's quicker than you'd imagine because time flies, but when you get there, it won't be a big deal.

you will have (re)defined what you feel it means to be 40 and you will think that the only thing changed is the year on the calendar.  

"same as it ever was. time isn't after us, time isn't holding us."-- talking heads 
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things seem to get better with age for me. im enjoying my 30s now... my 40s will be awesome.
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I would have to say 40s are happier. I know my 30s sure the heck are and I look forward to the golden years ahead God willing. My 20s were great..I went hard in the paint, but I am happy to see what the other decades have in store:)#team oldhead

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Both beautiful for different reasons.
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

   @neka I don't wanna get older

I'd rather be young and free to do whatever, whenever!!..than old and settled any day

I feel so free and liberated at my age I wouldn't trade this feeling for anything or money in the world

Hug 

i don't blame you for that. no one wants a feeling of being trapped or overwhelmed by responsibility or feeling like their life belongs to everyone but themselves. 

however, it doesn't happen all over night. it's quicker than you'd imagine because time flies, but when you get there, it won't be a big deal.

you will have (re)defined what you feel it means to be 40 and you will think that the only thing changed is the year on the calendar.  

"same as it ever was. time isn't after us, time isn't holding us."-- talking heads 


so wise
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 so wise
eeeeh... i'll just take the compliment and say, "thank you."

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40's because by then you should be established.

Still in my 20's but the best advice I can give is to take care of your health and exercise. Your metabolism slows as you get older and I wanna look as good as Halle Berry when I'm 40. That's my goal lol.

And 40 is NOT old...you are only as old as you think and feel. @modelsdiva, my aunt was in her late 30's to early 40's when she started traveling and she never settled down. She said she never wanted to get married because she valued her freedom. Age never slowed her down from living her life.

It's a blessing to see another birthday every year
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

30's was the best imo.


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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

30's was the best imo.


girl bye



Ouch lol don't me wonder
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40's might be nice...
but i just turned 20 and im confused about everythingggg

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