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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote sbrownie84 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2018 at 6:32pm
we gotta do better.

u get berated for 'acting like you a perfect' and a perfections but one mistake, oversight, etc you are side eyed and criminilized so what does one do.... you get hounded down for every mistake.


what's one to do.

cant please ppl


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work home school... been like that since ive known myself.  before that was work home.  I hardly even socialize.. barely went to the movies last month  to see mr rogers to pay homage to my childhood after 2 years...was treating myself for what I thought was an accomplishment at the time only to now wonder if i made a mistake where that is concerned.  i guess that is my punishment for blowing 10 bucks on a movie.. Lucky for me it was less thant $25

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i dont drink. I dont smoke.  what will i try to scam someone out of $25 for?
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One of my favorite scene in the Shawshank Redemption is after Andy spent  many years of a life sentence in prison for being framed for his wife's death, felt guilty for being an alcoholic and innattentive husband BUT when he had enough he said, "Whatever mistakes, Ive made, ive paid for it and then some."  I loved that scene of forgiving yourself and knowing that though you know you should have paid the price for the things you have done wrong, it does have to be a life sentence or for as long as people get a kick out of punishing you forever about it.  

it's done.

When you pay the price you pay the price...lets just hope it is not less than $25. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote sbrownie84 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2018 at 10:59pm
all these wonderful parents teaching other people's kids character and responsibility.  Let's hope it mirrors in their own homes.  

I could have had kids.  Thought I was doing the responsible thing by waiting, but i probably would be seen as more responsible if i did have one at my age.  Maybe they'd overlook the $25 b/c kids are 'expensive'

As women we should respect everyone's life decision.  

hey? *shrugs shoulders.


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Wait, What? D.L. Hughley Reveals His Wife PAID Mistress Years AFTER The Death Of Baby Out Of Wedlock (That She Initially Didn't Know About)

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Y'all, grab a seat and a mug because D.L. Hughley and his wife LaDonna Hughley are about to blow your mind. Get the deets on his wife financially taking care of a woman who had his baby (outside of his marriage) that eventually died inside...

This story literally feels like a page out of a fiction drama or something we would see on Lee Daniels' "Empire." It's shocking AF.

D.L. Hughley's wife takes the term "ride or die" to a whole new level.

The comedian recently sat down with VLAD TV where he got real candid about his childhood. In the interview, he revealed several things about his past, like how he lost his virginity to a 20-something-year-old at the age of 13, how his mother mistreated him, and more shocking details about his 30+ year marriage to his wife LaDonna Hughley.

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Years ago, the comedian opened up about cheating on his wife . It's no secret he was a habitual cheater. He even revealed one affair produced a baby while he was still married to his wife. D.L. tried to keep the baby news on the down low until he was ready to tell his wife and kids, but life sped up the process. And quick!

D.L. said his 9-month-old baby was killed by his mistress' boyfriend. He said he had prayed to God, asking him to "take this off me." And then instantly, "my prayer was answered in the worse possible way," he said.

However, after the baby died, he STILL didn't tell his wife about it. It wasn't until years later. He couldn't stand the guilt, so he eventually told her about the baby he had behind her back. Then after that, the mistress came back saying she needed money.

"Years later, the girl - it jammed her up too like it did me," he explained. "She started asking for money. She needed some money. And I told her my wife would have to take care of it. Because I couldn’t."

So he put the aftermath of his f*** up on his wife.

"So, she and my wife started talking and my wife started giving her money," he continued. "The condition was that she could never ask me and my wife to take care of her, so my wife took it from my allowance that I’ve never gotten back." Allowance? Hmm...maybe she handles all of his finances. D.L. confessed he doesn't know if his wife is still giving his former mistress money because he can't do that either apparently. "So I don’t know if she’s still giving it to her or not. But I know that I don’t get that money anymore. And I can’t go, ‘Are you still?..” I can’t do that," he shared.

D.L. shared that one day he was getting off an airplane when he saw that his wife AND the mistress was there. He then explained that the woman was the mother of the child that died and he said his wife told her, "Sorry for your loss."

In case you were wondering, the mistress' boyfriend - who allegedly killed the baby - did end up serving jail time, but he's out now. D.L. said he felt the man who killed his child didn't get enough time in prison for his crime. He said he felt like someone robbed him of something.

"Every time something good happens to me, I think about it," he said.



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WTF?? I can't even comment on or mentally process DL Hughley's situation.
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Wow 😲
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Azealia Banks dragging Elon Musk by his hair plugs is not what 2018 asked for, but what it desperately needed😆
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For PH:
Elgin.Charle.s has a memoir coming out this month called "BI THE. WAY".
Embarrassed
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