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I do feel more grounded. Protected and at peace. More awake. My intuition is more clear. I take more time for myself and enjoy the moment without worrying about other people or things

I developed empathy which I've never had before.

Not sure if our "cycle" is done..I feel like he'll be back

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So it might still be unfolding. Just take the lessons and apply it yourself as they appear and see how it goes. Hopefully he is doing the same. Usually one person is evolving faster than the other, and that creates the separation, but the connection pulls you back, but then you get more purified by the connection until you've both worked out your shadow, and then you can both have the bliss you both initially desired.
It's a great experience if you like the scorpionic/plutonic burn of death and rebirth, like i do.

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He makes me question whether he is hotep based on the amount of hotep keywords/phrases. Like hotep adjacent. I was laying on top of him, clothed, and asked, "Do you think mensuration is natural?"

I was so serious. He said, "Nita, I do not think the black woman is God"

Lmao. He knew right where I was going.

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^ i howled
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Don't be mad, I'm right. People should not aspire to b booty models after their 20's. Unless u struck enormous fans in ur twenties, u can not start at 32. I don't care how good u look. Commercial modeling, yes, u can pick up later in life. Booty/urban modeling? No. grow up.

Gon say, well should men stop trying to rap or be fighters (like Mma)? Ummm hell yes. It's horrible advice to tell u to do so. Spend that time u would've spent chasing childish late dreams and build a real life for urself. No matter what u choose you'll have to work hard. To b amber, chyna, Kim, u have to go hard. To b drake, Nikki, beyonce, u still have to work hard. If ur 31 trying to do this, I side eye u. Leave that to the kids.

I believe age doesn't stop most things, however there r fields where age really matters. Be cognizant and don't delude urself. You lack the virtue of honesty if u can't be real with urself.

This is really a lesson in seizing the moment and not letting time go by complacently. Take risks, make mistakes because this is ur time now.

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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

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I was in contact with DiorShow today and she is fine. I told her that we all had noticed that she hadnt posted for a really long time. She that she lurks here and there, but she is fine


Thanks for the update!
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lol thank you Cocobeans, CB, and KC
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Nita, primates (humans, apes, monkeys, gorillas) menstruate.
Dogs & cats bleed (estus)

I really dont get why the hell these hoteps think that women or Black women should not bleed like evolution intends for us to BUT im sure that it comes from lack of awareness. I imagine that they read a different type of book than the people that study science.

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CB, it is sad to see people like that. Desperate. Like they missed out on youth and want to recapture or capitalize on it late as hell. Like Bernice burgos is gorgeous, but when put in perspective that she has a daughter in her 20s, bernice seems to be in a box like she has nothing to show as accomplisments at a late age but her physical.
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I feel so bad for hoteps because their intention is in the right place, but they're too ignorant to get to their destination. 
It happens. lol. 
In an attempt to overcome the blatant oppression of black men and women that has recently become public again in America due to technology and social media, and the desire to develop some self value as a result, they've swung too far to the other side of the spectrum and have become deluded.

The 2 sides of duality is always fighting, and unfortunately some members get caught in that limbo state between conscious and unconscious. Before this recent hotep movement, this same idea was expressed with those natural nazis who in effort to reclaim the personal power and identity that wearing your natural kinks represent, swung so far to the other side that they simply became a slave to their kinks.
All they did was change masters. They won't see it that way, but IMO they're not free because they don't allow themselves the choice of wearing their hair however they want to. Instead of feeling forced to wear their hair straight, they're now forced (by their own guilt due to their limited perspective of freedom) to wear their hair only kinky. You're still in bondage IMO. Only now it's even more sad because it is self inflicted. 


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