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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote kfoxx1998 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 06 2013 at 2:29pm
I'm so serious.  During the Rodney King/LA Riots a yt lady (who reported to me mind you) said "Geez, you would think they wouldn't be out there rioting and fighting the ppl who pay their welfare checks".  I STILL have have several slaps reserved for that trick. 
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Damn.

Make a thread dedicated to posting about BHM beefs in the open with no identities hidden and everyone's okay.


Make a blog of anonymous BHM confessions about anything BHM and well..

you know why it was a problem...tried it once, didn't work out...tried it twice, left an even worse taste...no one wanted it to happen again so what was the point?  nothing has changed for any new sh*t to be confessed anyway since it was only a few months ago.  obviously the same people would be targeted so why do it?


Last confession thread I remember was over a year ago so forgive my ignorance to the 'thread from a few months ago' but though I knew the potential ugliness that could have stemmed from this, my main idea was the Tumblr definition of a confession blog.

They're very common there where people express their opinions on topics relating to a particular subject identity exposed or anonymously without the hassle of debate and potential arguments.

But everyone has their mind made up.

It would have been juicier if people could anonymously confess about their own lives and leave other BHM members out of it.


It would have been.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote BrownQtee Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 06 2013 at 2:36pm
Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

I'm so serious.  During the Rodney King/LA Riots a yt lady (who reported to me mind you) said "Geez, you would think they wouldn't be out there rioting and fighting the ppl who pay their welfare checks".  I STILL have have several slaps reserved for that trick. 
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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

I'm so serious.  During the Rodney King/LA Riots a yt lady (who reported to me mind you) said "Geez, you would think they wouldn't be out there rioting and fighting the ppl who pay their welfare checks".  I STILL have have several slaps reserved for that trick. 
ain't that a bitch...? smh. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote petiteone29 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 06 2013 at 4:29pm
BHM is pretty passive aggressive though. Especially when posters write things like " There is a certain poster who be lying on here but im not gonna say no names but she know who she is."

what is the point if your not going to tell us?
then the thread turns into a game of "guess who"
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

BHM is pretty passive aggressive though. Especially when posters write things like " There is a certain poster who be lying on here but im not gonna say no names but she know who she is."

what is the point if your not going to tell us?
then the thread turns into a game of "guess who"

Another game they play is to gas each other up into saying what they're all thinking then pretend to be shocked when one of them says it.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote OoDles O Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 07 2013 at 6:10am
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Yeah... FTP'ing is a good example.
you think? hmm. i've just seen it as both messy & bhm policy. 

clarification is one thing, but i've often seen that people like to redact things or flat out change stories once the sh!t hits.

also, along the lines? bucking up with an "eta" after everyone's moved on to the next 5 or so pages. that i find passive aggressive. 

stop typing what you felt you shoulda said back then and say it in the present. 

makes me think of marge, "shut up becky". LOL

Just my personal observation ...

I only see FTP'ing on BHM. Other message boards ... they either go for the neck on some 1 on 1 battle or there's some sort of ignore feature... or its just not that serious...

Thats also why threads with controversial topics/questions don't take off until like page 4 cause page 1-3 everyone is "oowing" and "ahhhing" trying not to say something to contentious because the BHM group field mob is gonna come for that ass...LOL cause every bodies gotta chime in at some point.


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FTP is so they can't delete later.
That's not really passive.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote OoDles O Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 07 2013 at 6:53am
Imo its like a smaller version of saving peoples pictures and in some other thread later down the line reposting them on some "you look like this! how can you possibly comment on so and so's looks" 

but do you. Jmo


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